Sypnosis
AVATAR takes us to a spectacular world beyond imagination, where a reluctant hero embarks on an epic adventure, ultimately fighting to save the alien world he has learned to call home. James Cameron, the Oscar-winning director of “Titanic,” first conceived the film 15 years ago, when the means to realize his vision did not yet exist. Now, after four years of production, AVATAR, a live action film with a new generation of special effects, delivers a fully immersive cinematic experience of a new kind, where the revolutionary technology invented to make the film disappears into the emotion of the characters and the sweep of the story.
Avatar is set during the 22nd century on a small moon called Pandora, which orbits a gas giant, and is inhabited by the tribal Na’vi, ten foot blue humanoids that are peaceful unless attacked. Humans cannot breathe Pandoran air, so they genetically engineer human/Na’vi hybrids known as Avatars that can be controlled via a mental link. A paralyzed Marine named Jake Sully (Sam Worthington) volunteers to exist as an Avatar on Pandora, falling in love with a Na’vi princess and becoming caught up in the conflict between her people and the human military that is consuming their world.
AVATAR is set to be one of the most anticipated movies this year. Expect a movie filled with actions, emotions and love as director James Cameron brings to live Pandora to you.
Courtesy of Twentieth Century Fox, 80 Nuffnangers with their guests will be able to catch AVATAR on its first release day in Malaysia! To win yourself a pair of invites to catch AVATAR in the big screen, share with us your biggest dilemma in life so far in the comment section.
An example of a dilemma would be what our hero, Jake Sully would encounter as he’s forced to choose between his own species and the love of his life. Whichever side he chooses, he’ll feel the pain and guilt. Tell us your dilemma and if your dilemma is big enough to touch our hearts, you’ll be given a pair of invites to catch AVATAR before its release date.
Leaving a comment in this blog post is definitely not a dilemma as you’ll be missing out the chance to catch one of the biggest movies this year. Hurry!
For more information about AVATAR, check out www.avatarmovie.com
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November 26th, 2009 at 12:23 pm
My biggest dilemma in life so far is to understand how the opposite sex think, even with all the self help books, it still wouldn’t make me understand them more. Well, maybe that’s why guys are guys and girls are girls. Guys will always solve problems while girls love to share problems. Strange isn’t it?
November 26th, 2009 at 12:31 pm
the biggest dilemma in my life so far is i won Nuffnang Premiere Screening but i can’t able to attend =(
November 26th, 2009 at 12:31 pm
My biggest dilemma right now is deciding whether to focus completely on doing business entrepreneurism and dropping studies or sticking with studies until the bitter end!
November 26th, 2009 at 12:34 pm
My biggest dilemma is when I have to choose between shortlisted list of girl to become my girlfriend, every girl is unique and everyone of them have their strength and weakness, you know the feel, the fear of being afraid that your option is not the best option at all.. Not till then I figure out that everyone have their strength and weakness and who am I to judge, just follow my heart and am glad and happy till now..
November 26th, 2009 at 12:36 pm
My biggest dilemma in life so far now is I have to juggle between job and studies and family! It’s totally crazy….
November 26th, 2009 at 12:37 pm
My biggest dilemma in life so far was to decide should I stay with the current company that I’m working now or sourcing out for new job.
The current company were facing some bad management control and a few of my colleague asked to leave as the company facing losses.
I’ve been serving the company for about 4 years plus and have fitted well in it, changing new environment would be a shock for me.
November 26th, 2009 at 12:38 pm
My biggest dilemma in life so far is to choose whether to go australia study or stay at malaysia study. I always want to get the chance to go Australia for futher study and my family did support me to do that. However, I feel very hard to leave my family in Malaysia. I would like to accompany my parent, brother and sisters. In my life, I always busy to do something else which make me do not have time to spend with my family. If possible, I want to allocate more time for my parent and observe my younger sis and bro growing. Ambition or Family…I feel really hard to choose. Same as the hero Jake Sully, which option I choose, I will still feel pain and guilty.
November 26th, 2009 at 12:39 pm
Well, you can’t say that myriads of people experience the same dilemma which results in the same life-changing manner, or else we’ll all be the same!
In my case, it was something rather small, insignificant suffice to say, but made an impact like a tidal wave in the sea. Here goes…
To go or not to go… I was caught in between 2 PROMISED events; 23rd birthday party and a festive 3 days 2 nights crush to a friend’s place to Port Dickson. Both sounds ordinary, but made a difference. Just as a result, I went to the birthday party instead of the trip. Why? That’s the biggest dilemma…
Either choice made, I’ll still be the bad guy to the other…
November 26th, 2009 at 12:40 pm
Biggest dilemma that i had been through recently was being involved in an car accident, which a car banged me at the back door of the driver side of sit. Where i have never face this type of situation and therefore, i was being accused by the other party that it is my fault.
Due to i am still under P license, i thought that it might affect the deduction of merit points. So i have a personal deal with him that we do not report police and settle it ourself. On the other hand, i was worried that if i tell it to my parents, whether i am wrong or not, they will still blame it on me saying that i’m careless.
Therefore, i decided to lied and hide the truth from my family. I took a very deep taught for making the decision whether to tell the truth to my parents. Or just pay him. Although my colleagues advice me to tell the truth, but some how i am still worried.
After struggling with the situation, i finalize my decision to settle it between us. So he decided to go for a car repair and he since he insisted that it is my wrong. He ask me to pay for the repair fees. I passed him the car workshop contact number, and asked him to set the date with them himself, and after done with the repair, i will pay for the bill. And he agree with it.
But after 2 weeks time and even till now, i have no calls from him. So i called the staff of the car workshop, they told me he never turn up as well.
So there is a very big stone that i’m carrying with me everyday. As i still afraid he would go for a report.
But to be honest, till now there is still fear in me that i am afraid he would go for a police report and the truth will be reveal to my parents.
November 26th, 2009 at 12:40 pm
either choose buy DSLR or go trip…
if buy DSLR..no money go trip
if go trip , no camera take photo…
headache about it..
November 26th, 2009 at 12:57 pm
The biggest dilemma in my life took place in 2005 – I had to decide whether to attend my uncle’s funeral in Penang or to forgo his funeral and stay in PJ to prepare for my SPM examination. To attend his funeral 2 days before my paper would mean that I would not have sufficient time to revise, but on the other hand, he was my uncle whom I seldom get to see. Despite that, he treated me like his own daughter every time we met.
At the end, my mom told me to stay in PJ as she claimed that the decision was what my uncle would want me to do as well. Therefore, I only managed to pay my last respect to him when my exams were over. Although I scored well in SPM that year, I regretted for not seeing him for the very last time. After all, he was my uncle, and exams are just… exams.
November 26th, 2009 at 12:57 pm
My life always had its own fair share dilemmas. It just depends on whether it was worth remembering or not.
One of my biggest dilemmas was in my dream where I had to choose between saving my dad or mom from falling off the cliff. I saved my mom (no heart feelings dad) but when my dad fell of the cliff, an angel caught him and he was alive but I felt even more guilty having to face my dad after that even though he said he understands why I made that choice.
I woke up in tears.
Ok thanks! now invite me!hahaha.. ;P
November 26th, 2009 at 12:57 pm
I need the tickets to get me into the dilemma. XD Well, since its the holiday season and there’s nothing to be worried of, my biggest dilemma so far would be… Who would I bring along for the screening? my bro or the bf? that’s a hard choice you know, considering both are anticipating the release of AVATAR. sigh, boys… Well, i guess when time comes, we’ll know!
November 26th, 2009 at 1:00 pm
Here’s my answer!
My biggest dilemma so far is to choose between studying and working. I love studying so much because its interesting and important for my life, but I cannot live without my job either as I need incomes to support my wife and child, at the end I choose to work part-time while full-time studying. Although working takes up my time for studying, I do not regret as I am able to support my family financially yet able to do the things I like.^^
November 26th, 2009 at 1:18 pm
The biggest dilemma in my life so far was saying goodbye to my late grandma who was in a coma. I didn’t want to lose her, but I also didn’t want to see her suffer. It was a painful and difficult situation…even after 6 years I still think about her a lot.
November 26th, 2009 at 1:23 pm
wah~
great~
interesting~
biggest dilemma?
yeah~
mybe quite interesting but sharing is caring right~
urm..
dilemma in my study~
neither i want to choose course that i like or interesting
i like the art thing, but i`m not sure with my ability~
yeah~
dilemma right?
my study is my future~
so now~
i`m very thankful coz i`m as a industrial design student~
i can manage myself and try hard to make sure that i`m not regret with my choice~
ok~
dats all i think~
tq~
November 26th, 2009 at 1:24 pm
My biggest dilemma in life so far go and watch Nuffnang Premiere Screening before it local cinema release or wait and watch together with group of friends.
November 26th, 2009 at 1:27 pm
“Whatever you want to do, dont stuck in the dead end job”. These words had a powerful effect on me and have occupied my consciousness over the past 3 years. It was the March after Finishing my Diploma and this advice was given to me while I was working in the electronic factory. My coworker had been there for over 10 years and now, in the midst of back problems and middle-age, she was unhappy with her life and urged me not to make the same mistake.
I escaped that dead-end job in June to continued my study in Degree. Graduating 3 years later with a bachelor’s degree in Electronic Industry, I returned to the workforce with an education that provided me the opportunity to avoid getting “stuck.” But in the past two and a half years I have not succeeded in transcending wage-slavery. Rather, I have struggled with the collective dilemma of life under capitalism: How do we follow our passions while simultaneously survive? It is the challenge of life in the “real world,” in which we often have to neglect the things that are important to us in order to feed ourselves. It’s the reality of the artist who waits tables and the activist working for a big corporation. We are forced to compromise our true interests, what keeps us going, simply to make ends meet. We are resigned to the economic imperatives of survival.
Should I Continued To Work Under this System?
November 26th, 2009 at 1:43 pm
I cannot entirely figure out what has been my biggest dilemma in life so far, since just like everyone else, I have had my fair share of dilemmas.
One dilemma that I can recall is that last year, I had to choose between private and government school. I was already in a private school, and many would deem me crazy if I were to switch to a government school. It was a headache for me, but when I got my head clear, I realised that I had to leave my comfort zone and move on in life.
Hence, I made the ambigious decision of going to a government school. One year on, I am enjoying life here and have no qualms whatsoever.
November 26th, 2009 at 1:46 pm
When I found out there were two small lumps in my right chest back in 2007 (I was only 19), I was very scared and worried that would be a bad one. I told my mom about it and she brought me to check up, it was not a bad lump but doctor suggested to remove it in case it’ll turn to a bad one in the future. I am a person who is very afraid of pain and death, I was struggling so long whether to do the operation or not because I don’t want a potential cancer cell in my body but I’m scared of the pain I have to go through. On the other hand, I’m very uncertain about the outcome and also reaction of boyfriend if I did the operation, that would be a scar on my chest. We all know how important a scar-less chest to a woman. I was worried that my boyfriend would mind about that, not to forget my confidence level would be pulled down. But then after much consideration and discussion with the boyfriend, I went for the operation. Both the operation (2 injections of anesthetics) and recovery period (took around 1 month to recover) were very tough time for me, very.
When I thought everything is ok, only I found out that the doctor didn’t remove the 2nd lump from my chest, the reason given was the 1st and 2nd lump a bit distant from each other (within the same chest) so to just remain a small cut on my chest, the doctor chose to remove only one. (because to remove both, the doctor had to open a bigger cut, according to him) I was like wtf?! How could he! The doctor remained a potential cancer cell (touch wood!) in my body and until today, it’s still in there. I can feel the pain when I press it before & during my menstrual period (hormone cause), it’s like my biggest dilemma in life so far, back to 2007 and now, that should I or should I not remove it once again. Even if I remove it again, I’m not sure whether the lump will come back again or not, or the doctor will remove it perfectly clean or not. Dilemma dilemma… :(
November 26th, 2009 at 1:50 pm
So far…my biggest dilemma in my life happened during i received the offer letter from University.
I have been teaching in primary school for 1 year ++ and now i have to choose to continue teaching them or continue study…I am really reluctant to leave all my student ,but I know for a better future I have to move on.
On my last day teaching in the class,I nearly cancel my decision when my student crying all togather.
Ｉ ｌｏｖｅ ｙｏｕ ａｌｌ．
November 26th, 2009 at 1:51 pm
The biggest dilemma my life so far… whether to buy my own house or not. Big financial commitment! But having my own place to stay would be great…
November 26th, 2009 at 1:53 pm
My biggest dilemma was to choose which career path I wanna set foot in. While I excelled at what I study (Biotechnology), I was also very keen on event management and pretty good at. In the end, I took almost a year break to try out both fields before making a decision.
November 26th, 2009 at 2:22 pm
My biggest dilemma in my life is my decission to propose to my wife. As i was only 25 years only then, i have to make a choice to persuit my freedom in life or to commit to provide happiness to the person i loved the most. I know that both side of the decision i made will effect the rest of my life significantly. After countless sleepless night, i decided to proposed to my wife since that is not many chance in your life that you can find someone that truly understand, love, and stand by your side till you die.
November 26th, 2009 at 2:24 pm
Hi,
My biggest dilemma in life so far is when I need to choose what is the best for my future and my family. I must think twice when make any decision. I’m degree student at some private university. After my father passed away, no body would pay my fees of study. I’m also looking forward for doing any part time job, but I’m still cannot effort my study cost. Suddenly, I stop my study and working for full time and help to reduce my family financial. All my ambition and dreams has gone far.. far away.. Even though its to bad, I have to calm my self and make my self happy.. Don’t let anybody know my problem and situation. Not everyone will understand. What is the best thing is, my family love me and I got full time job as Helpdesk Assistant. This is not too far from my studies course.
Hopefully im the chosen one.. Thanks Nuffnang!!
November 26th, 2009 at 2:28 pm
my dilemma would be to choose between curry mee and curry chu cheong fun because i love to eat cockles in curry mee so much but i cant let go the taste of curry fishball and curry fried beancurd skin melting in my mouth. If i were to choose the curry chu cheong fun, i have to let go my cockles and also the curry fried bean curd..arrghhh so what should i do!!
November 26th, 2009 at 2:31 pm
the biggest dilemma in my life so far is between the interview to get full sponsorship to study abroad and the last few days of my closest relative. my closest relative is not going to make it for more than a week n my interview is clashing at the same week.besides that,he is also back in my hometown which is in penang.my family is very important to me and my future career is the same as well. if i went for the interview,i may not see my relative which i spend my whole life with again. if i went to spend the last few days with my relative,i may not be having the chance to study abroad. that is the biggest delimma in life so far.
November 26th, 2009 at 2:40 pm
My biggest dilemma in life till now… have to be the moment I have to decide whether continue my form 6 or go on with diploma. I’ve done first year of Form 6 and I was a little disappointed with the teaching then (we’re the first batch to have to use English in all science and maths during Form 6 and teachers aren’t good enough for the english syllabus). I was told to finished the study but also been told that I shouldn’t waste time on that. End up, I’ve decided to go for diploma instead of continuing the study. No regrets though. Because of the decisions and am now happy with what I’ve got. =D
P/S if not of that decision, I wouldn’t have been blogging and know Nuffnang(my classmate during diploma inspired me on blogging).
November 26th, 2009 at 2:45 pm
my biggest dilemma in life so far was last time to go vacation with my parents at Korea or Company trip to melbourne. both also the countries that I wanted to go. it was one of the hardest decision but to choose *anyong haseyo..
November 26th, 2009 at 2:56 pm
2 years ago, I fell in love with road cycling out of no where. Being a student with no income, I wouldn’t wanna burden my parents by asking them to purchase a road bike for me which could cost from 2k+ for the most basic model. I have 2 choice : Buy a 2nd hand bike with my own money or give it up.
I chose to bought the bike. The consequences were:
Bad:
1) my parents were very upset the way i used my money
2) I feel darn guilty about it
3) crashed due to a drain cover and broke my collarbone during the first few weeks of riding. Took 2 months of recovery to be able to do sports and arm function. Made my parents worried
Good:
1) Riding gives me the best time to do reflection on my life be it a 1hour ride or 8 hours ride
2) Improved my fitness and butt pain threshold
3) Got to know new friends that are cyclists.
4) Joined the PCC Interstate 2008 where 300 riders cycled from Kajang to Kuantan in 3days. Excruciating painful experience but nevertheless 1 of the best adventure/trip of my life.
Looking back, I’d probably would have chosen to obey my parents and not being rebellious and though i’ve regretted for the heartaches i’ve caused, I really enjoyed cycling.
Thank you for listening Nuffnang.
November 26th, 2009 at 2:56 pm
My biggest dilemma so far happened only recently, last weekend to be exact. I am faced with having to make a very important decision and no matter what decision i come to, i would still end up hurting family members and the one i love most. Everyday i go to work with a force smile and bubbly attitude only to avoid questions from colleagues. It’s tiring having to pretend everything is ok when its not.
November 26th, 2009 at 2:58 pm
My biggest dilemma is whether to lose weight or not.
It all started out with my bf getting feed up of me being plus size. He said “dear look, if u lose weight I will pay u, see good?” I thought wow getting paid to lose weight?! how cool is that? but here’s my dilemma.
Terms & Conditions of this Lose Weight Gain Money Agreement
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Every 1 kg I lose I get rm100
My current weight is 75kg.
If I lose weight from 75-70kg = each 1kg i get paid rm100
If I lose weight from 70kg – 60kg = each 1kg I lose I get paid double (rm200)
If I Lose 60-55kg = each 1kg i lose get rm300
BUT..
if I gain back 1kg.. i have to pay my bf double the amount I get.
SO TELL ME SHOULD I LOSE WEIGHT OR NOT? AND IF I JUST SHOULD LOSE UNTIL 70KG ONLY?!
I always been Plus Size!!! if i cannot maintain my weight after I lose HOW?!
THIS IS A GET RICH SCAM RIGHT?! Who in the end will earn MONEY?
ME OR MY BF?
November 26th, 2009 at 3:01 pm
My biggest dilemma in life is whether to continue join contest and such to get premier/preview tickets, be the first to watch movies before others do, OR just let it be and watch it some other time later.
November 26th, 2009 at 3:08 pm
My biggest dilemma in life so far is whether should I ask my boss to increase my salary or not, I’ve been working for 1 year plus here, boss never increase my salary since my first day joining this company.. cant really live with this amount of money. Money o money~ Should I change to new environment? Mmmmm dilemma…
Boss Tim wanna hire me? Mmmmm =p
November 26th, 2009 at 3:14 pm
My biggest dilemma so far is between my family and my studies. Because of the recent separation between mum and dad, I am now the leader in the family and therefore must support my mum and siblings financially. I have always wanted to continue my studies to mastery level, but due to the financial situation, I am working on full time basis. I am thinking about juggling my work and studies, but even that will not be possible because a lot of financial sacrifices would be involved. I have been thinking that right now, what’s important is to give my family the priority. But it also crushes my heart to see my friends continuing their studies to mastery level. I’m not sure if I will be able to juggle between so many things. Oh life!~
November 26th, 2009 at 3:17 pm
My biggest dilemma in life so far
was to choose whether should I study
law or mass comm.
Law is my biggest dream since when
I was in secondary school but due to
my disappointing results and also the
course fees would cost a bomb to my family,
even my boyfriend has a doubt whether can I
complete the course of not.
I was in dilemma maybe I should choose mass comm
which my parents would be able to afford the fees
and also mass comm was my second choice by then.
However,
I am now studying law because my grandpa
said he will support me financially but with
a condition I must study even harder than before
to achieve my dream.=)
November 26th, 2009 at 3:20 pm
My biggest dilemma in life so far is to make up my decision whether to work for money or work for job satisfaction with good future. I am not so lucky as I can’t find a job that I like a lot and with good pay and future. This makes me keep thinking on what I really want to achieve it my working life now… So hard to decide.
Thanks
November 26th, 2009 at 3:24 pm
My biggest dilemma in life so far is to decide whether to stay with my family or buy a house and stay with my wife after married. This is so confusing where my mum always enforce me to take care of her by staying with her and on my wife side, she keeps saying that she wanted to have our own small family. This is making me crazy. How to decide? Can I be both good son and husband??
How????????????
November 26th, 2009 at 3:24 pm
My biggest dilemma is when I have to choose whether to drop EST for SPM next year. I like EST but since my teacher said that the subject will be clashing with another subject that Im taking which is Art, I have to choose. I cant afford to make a choice because if I drop either one of it, I will only have 9 subjects left. And SPM required us people to take 10. Plus, I am thinking of getting a scholarship after the big exam.
November 26th, 2009 at 3:24 pm
want to see it ;p
November 26th, 2009 at 3:36 pm
The biggest dilemma so far in my life was to choose whether to support my mom or my dad. They have been married for 29 years now but the marriage has been very shakey since these last few years. I think it started after a year after my mom was transferred to middle-east country to work there. She comes back for holiday only 4 times a year. Since then, their relationship turned bad.
Every now and then, my mom would talk to me about her feelings and her problem with my dad. I do not know how I should react, what advise should I give; either to encourage her in leaving him or try to make her fix the relationship. I know that she needs us (my siblings and I) to be there to support her through all the hard times.
And because of that and with things that I learnt about my dad from her, I sometimes hate my dad for only that certain reasons. I began not talking to him. But sometimes I just ignored him to get out from his lectures and shouting. We just do not have any similar interest. That’s the main reason why we rarely talk to each other and it was so sad not talking to your own dad. BUT I still LOVE him no matter what happenned between us. He’s my dad. I can only have one dad in my life.
Because of this, all my aunties, uncles and cousins from my father’s side have abandoned us. They blame us for this. It isn’t fair as they only hear one side of the story.
And now my dad has moved out. There are only me and my 2 siblings left, staying in the house.
It’s embarassing to tell my problem in public. But I believe this was my biggest dilemma.
November 26th, 2009 at 3:36 pm
every of the dilemmas from the above comments touch my heart. but,i have mine which i think is best to share with all of you out there. this is my life, and this is my true story. im 20, malay and still studying in one private college here in KL, i’ve been living as a gay person since i was 15, it’s all started ever since i live in my highschool hostel, i was changed by early age choosing this unacceptable activity, but hey, i dont be a gay only for sexuality things, nor a ‘lembut’ guy. i have my boy friends, he’s studying together with me but in different course, but we live together renting an apartment somewhere in kl, we have bonded each other for so long, sometimes i kepts on thinking, what would happened next, in 1 yers, 2, 3 or 20 years, will our love last forever? i know it is a big sins, but i’m not a perfect man, we love each others not just by our look, it come deep from our heart, and now i have biggest dilemma on choosing the best path for my future, my elder brothers and sister is married, should i? should i marry a women just to follow my family and religion needs? should i make lies? i’ve watched a movie named brokeback mountain, n i know i really can follow the way the two man choosed; marry a women but still having a dark affairs behind their wives. i know i don’t have to, and i can’t lie to myself n my family, even to my future wife if i was forced to get married. i will always scared each time i woke up from sleep, when i look to my boyfriend’s face, i am touched and feeling scared. how would all this going to finished? i’m a boy with world biggest dilemma, but what i can do now i keep my life go on, let the blood run through my veins, i want to have ang live in a happy life ever after… please people, i don’t write this for this free tickets, but i know, there’s a time and place where i can share my story…if u are lucky enough, don’t follow my steps, choose the best on your own. together, we creates the story, losing all past stories and writes a new chapter everyday.. ©my own dilemma, azree
November 26th, 2009 at 3:44 pm
One of the dilemmas I couldn’t forget and sometimes still feels guilty of was when I had to choose between my life and the life of another person.
The thing is, I was selected to donate my bone marrow to a leukemia patient. She was an Asian, a Malay and this happened when I was in the States. They had very limited Asian donors and I came at the right time. I know it’s quite a painful procedure but I didn’t mind, if it meant I could save another person’s life. The girl was only 8 years old and had had leukemia since she was 6 years old.
However, on the same day of the procedure, I had a flu. The girl, she already had radiation and the bone marrow transfer is supposed to be done within 24 hours after the radiation. I had to go through a lot of medical procedures. The doctors gave me antibiotics and all but I still had the flu. During this very sensitive procedure, the donor must be as healthy as a horse. Even a slight sneeze can bring complications, most likely, death.
I started getting worse. My fever spiked. My whole body ached. Maybe it was the meds. Maybe it was my nerves. I don’t know. Finally, I can’t even move my arms if I don’t want to feel bad aches in all my joints. So, I asked them to cancel the transfer. I don’t know, I got really scared at this point. Sadly there were no other Asian donors. The girl held on. 12 hours longer than the suspected time she should have died. And then, she was gone..
I was in a sterile room, next to her sterile room and I saw the beeping line went flat. I felt like I had made the most selfish decision ever for asking them to cancel the transfer. Even though they assured me I still can’t help because I am sick, but if they had given me more meds, maybe I could’ve helped her. I still feel guilty about that. At that time, I didn’t think about her. I thought about myself first and I chose myself. She was just 8 years old… :(
November 26th, 2009 at 3:49 pm
My biggest dilemma in life was
when my mum said I can only choose
either to study abroad or buy a car.
November 26th, 2009 at 3:51 pm
well , my worst and biggest dilemma would be few years back when i was with this girlfriend of mine , who force me to choose between my promises of work and my love for her , where at that time , she force me to accompany her for nothing special or important reason , just because she feels like wanting me not to work and accompany her do nothing , even when she know i had already promised my superior that i confirmed to take her working shift as she need to rush back to home town . in the end ….. i choose over the important of work and not her over the silly reason . and things start to change from good to bad and then to worst . sigh … so if this happened to you , will it be your dilemma too ?! which one will you choose ?!
November 26th, 2009 at 4:07 pm
To continue staying in Malaysia or to migrate to the oversea? I believe some people would have such dilemma before. I’m one of those and let me share my experience with you.
Like many kids of our generation, I was being brought up by my aunt as my parents had no time to take care of me due to their business. She take care everything for me, from preparing daily meals, sending me on and off the school, to guiding me with my revisions. My aunt was a motherly figure to me, I respect and love her as if she’s my biological mother.
The d-day came sometime ago when I learn that my aunt was planning to migrate to the US. She offered to bring me along to the States, and would seek for my parents’ permission. I was delighted by the offer but at the same time, am worried with the uncertain future.
Whether I would to accept aunt’s offer, or to continue stay in Malaysia. After all this is the place where I was born and live for so many years, I couldn’t afford to leave it just like that. Even though my parents did not spend much time with me, but I understand that they’ve worked very hard to provide me with a stable life.
At the same time, the opportunity to expand my life in the States seems to be promising, as many had thought of living the American dream.
Eventually I’ve made up my mind, to continue living in Malaysia. It’s a bitter decision to part with my beloved aunt, but I’m happy to be in Malaysia. Initially I regretted a little but I stood firm with my decision. My aunt is proud of me to be able to make decision myself, as after all she had seen me grew up from a small little girl to a matured lady I am.
Today, I still managed to catch up with my aunt whenever she came back to visit us. It wasn’t that bad after all, but the moment of deciding it, was one of the biggest dilemma I ever had in my life so far.
November 26th, 2009 at 4:23 pm
My biggest dilemma in my life happened last two years when i have to choose either one of my girlfriend.That time i still studying and about to finish up my diploma.The main reason i have to choose because i have made up a mistake by loving two girls and at last i had choosen my second girlfriend and yet me were married this year…
November 26th, 2009 at 4:28 pm
My biggest dilemma in life so far is choosing to direct a corporate video $_$ or to produce a short film (for Filmfest) in my sem break. I need the money from the corporate video and I have a lovely scrip for the short film. I can only choose 1 and time is a factor.
November 26th, 2009 at 4:34 pm
My biggest dilemma in life so far is torn between a pair of couple which is also my best friend and his bf. It happens when my best friend want to play a prank on him using me but being myself, I have my own principle not to treat people like that but she’s my best friend ever! In the end, she was mad with me but I gain back my principle…
November 26th, 2009 at 4:34 pm
Hello I saw Ticket Lolz
My Biggest dilemma in my life is to choose my future about my career path of becoming a future hotelier or working in an accounting department. Is because I don’t really like the life working in hotel is because will be in a hotel day and night doing the same stuff without big challenges and always rushing something to finish.
For other hand working as a accounting in my friend company but I am not really good in it. I hath maths from the first i touches math and I am not really good in it. But my friend are forcing me to work it is because he only hire people that he trust to handle money in his company.
For My Last and Final Choice is to continue studying after my diploma and change my course for degree to other and pursue my favorite line. But the sad part my parent don’t have the money to pay for my degree course only for my diploma course.
So I have a lot of dilemma running in my mind about what should I do and choose because if i choose the wrong future and I will suffer later. So it make me hard to concentrate on my study for my diploma. Hope that what I choose is right and can make a good living in that what I choose.
November 26th, 2009 at 4:42 pm
My biggest dilemma life so far are my girl friend and bank account. They always give me a big headache. ok, first my girl friend, she always force me to clean the toilet, do the laundries, cook for her, massage, if i not doing so she said i dun love her…HAIZ…the worst is she always wanna go out walk here n there…come on, she already been that mall for 100 times dy, yet she wanna went there to walk n shopping… HELP ME!!!
My bank account, i think many ppl will be happy if they got a huge amount in their bank. But me different, i never happy with that, cause that amount is the AMOUNT I NEED TO PAY BANK TO CREDIT CARD. TNB…Every fresh month, others will enjoy go here n there to treat themselves. But once my income enter, in less than 24 hours, all gone…some when to car loan, ptptn loan, house rent, debt the i owe my gf…haiz….HELP HELP ME!!!
November 26th, 2009 at 4:43 pm
My biggest dilemma in life is whether choose the person who love me so much or choose the person i love him very much….
Well, i start my story here…
It’s been happen 3 years ago….
Mr.A is the guy i love him very much…v had been together since i was 15yo. At 2006, v break due to distance ( he going oversea to study). But v stil remain as good fren…
In my uni life, Mr. B treat me very good n he love me so much…i’m so touched that wat he did to me (V r very good fren)…
Now, Mr A already has gf…he told me tat i’m the one he love very much..but he cannot break wif his current gf..he wan both of us!!!! (OMG!!!i cant believe he say that to me)… he ask me to be wif him….
I am still thinkin to accept Mr.A or Mr.B….
Someone cam help me???? I din tel anyone about this even my family…
Anyway, thanks NUFFNANG giving me this oppoturnity to express my feeling here…
This is a very big DILEMMA i ever had…
November 26th, 2009 at 5:08 pm
I was fallen into a situation whether to tell the girl that my bestfriend is having another girlfriend beside her. I will lost even I choose any side
This is my dilemma
November 26th, 2009 at 5:18 pm
My biggest dilemma in life would be gave up my favorite subject and cause regretful to my current life.
When i was small, i already found out that i was talented in drawing and being more creative than other child. I remembered i could sketched kittens when i was only six year old! So i always wanted to continue my study in design field especially graphic design. After my SPM exam i was very initial to look for college which is well known in design field .
Unfortunately during that time my family faced financial problem and i realized my mother was the only 1 who support the whole family. Although my mother wanted to let me continue my dream and doesn’t mind to withdraw her EPF for my study fund. But i know i cannot be so selfish and that’s not easy for me and my whole family.Some more study at those expensive college will cost a lot and not only the fee but also the cost living and etc.( and i never work any part time before that!)
After struggling for 3 months i end up studied Form 6 and later on continue my study at a Local University by borrowing PTPTN loan . Although what i’ve studied was totally different from what i wanted , but i felt lucky that at least i learn to be tough and more independent.
Since i have been graduated from Uni and working for 1 year plus, i started feel loss in my future bcos i dun feel interested in what i am doing now.. Even though i am interested in the design field but i dont have the qualification to involve and made me feel upset..
Perhaps another dilemma for me to study in design field by part time basis or not?
November 26th, 2009 at 5:26 pm
seonpcs:
ask ur girl to change..cannot change leave her lor…u want a happy and harmonious life or difficult life. up to u. if u want difficult life then bear with the problems lor…so no more dilemma
November 26th, 2009 at 5:29 pm
My biggest dilemma was whether I should continue working in a globally recognised Multi National Company which had been my employer for the past 3 years where I had been climbing up the coporate ladder steadily or to step out from the system to venture into a partnership with a friend to build a company of my dreams, uncertain of the future, this will probably require more commitment & I will need to rise up to a new level
I choose the later =)
November 26th, 2009 at 5:36 pm
My biggest dilemma that i had to face was either to face my fears or walk away from the nightmare that i gained through my teacher . I couldn’t forget what she done to me until i had a major breakdown psychologically with nightmares haunting me every night . I had to choose between hatred and forgiveness . Whether to forgive her and put out the flame hidden under a mask or continue to live under a mask of happiness .
I will have to face her one day eventually . But i do not know when will that day be . So all i could do now i s cross my fingers and hope for that day to never come .
November 26th, 2009 at 5:40 pm
My biggest dilemma now is what to study after school!
Everyone alrdy knows where and what they’re gonna study and I’m totally clueless.
Science, business, mass com?
Plus, my mom is pushing me into form 6.
I dont know wht to do :(
November 26th, 2009 at 5:45 pm
The biggest dilemma i face was during year 2003. I do believe that some people sometime have to choose in between family or lover?
I got a girlfriend back to year 2003. Yes i know i m still young and naive that time (lol wtf). We are secretly couple without our parent knowledge until one day her parent got to know & came across our relationship. Her parent wasn’t like me for some reason which i dunno what it is until today. Later her parent ask her to leave me in order for her to concentrate her study. This kind of situation just like kill 2 bird with a stone for her parent. Don’t get it? Their daughter can leave me in the same time concentrate on study. Wasn’t it kill 2 bird wif a stone? LOL
However,my gf came to me and ask me to decide for her which she should choose. If she would obedient to her parent, she gotta broke up with me & leave me. If she still wanna stay with me, she gotta hide it from her parent again. So it was like a dilemma situation where i need to decide for her! of coz, for a such naive kid that time, i would love her to stay wif me. Again, being too young and naive lead me to a coward decision where i asked her to obedient to her parent word. Because in my mind i though maybe because we are too young and her parent felt we are not ready for that yet. Plus her parent seem anti me coz my study was not as good as their daughter. So i just though that if i study hard and surpass her, maybe her parent will accept me. Obviously i choose a path that would hurt both parties.
I guess i am regret making the decision for her until today. I cant see her anymore now. She is gone…
November 26th, 2009 at 5:54 pm
My biggest dilemma in life so far is whether to further my Post-graduate study or to work and earn enough money to pay for the further studies of my siblings. I chose the latter with no regrets. ;)
November 26th, 2009 at 5:59 pm
on whether its right to be selfish and hold on to the things that mean something to you or to let go and live a solitary life so you stop hurting those around you.
November 26th, 2009 at 6:00 pm
My biggest dilemma in life so far is to know did I should continue my bachelor in Malaysia or Singapore or Australia. If I going to Australia, I don’t think the main reason that I go Australia is for complete my bachelor but to run from someone that hurt my heart. That’s mean I just want forget it all my memory between me & her. There’s have a lot of sweet memory between me & her that difficult for me to forget it.
November 26th, 2009 at 6:07 pm
My biggest dilemma, and still now is, whether to fork out RM4k to a brand new slr. :(
It is a huge sum of money, and I’m still studying.
But photography is love, why no. :)
November 26th, 2009 at 6:26 pm
My biggest dilemma is to choose between my freedom and girl friend…i can do whatever i want as long as i’m single…i can meet up with my friend anytime and chitchat in social network without any time limitation.
If i’m engaged with a girl and she is become my girlfriend…i think i’m happy bcos my dream girl finally except me…my life will be full of love and enjoy the romantic time with her..The negative part is my time have to be used for accompanying my girlfriend and I have to sacrifice my private time and space for her…
This is my toughest question in my life….
hope someone point me the right way in my life
November 26th, 2009 at 6:28 pm
my biggest dilemma right now is, continue working with others people or starting my own company. if i choose to open company, i’m afraid to loose all of my life if company fail. else i’m stuck in tiny cubicles if i continue working for others. help..
November 26th, 2009 at 6:36 pm
When I see the phrase “Your BIGGEST DILEMMA so far”, it brings me back to the time when I was in Form one which is 8 years ago. After I managed to do well in my Ujian Penilaian Sekolah Rendah (UPSR),I got an offer to enter one of the top residential school in Malaysia which was far away from my hometown. However, it’s not really my decision to apply for the school. It’s my parents. They hope that I can get a better future. But for me, I didn’t want to leave my family and my friends at the age of 13 and started a brand new life in an unfamiliar place. One side was the high hope that my parents had put on me. While the another side is my childhood memory or I should say adolescence memory with my friends and family. And I was in between them. I had made a tough choice that time and after 8 years, I am happy that I do not regret of giving up the offer. If I were given a chance again to choose, I will still choose the same path that I have gone through.^^
November 26th, 2009 at 6:39 pm
My biggest dilemma in life is whether to forgive and forget the critics of a anonymous guy (at least I think he is a guy) who always come to my blog and leave behind bad comments and said that I was/is a terrible person or continue to fight back with the person’s comment every single time when he leaves a bad comments on my blog. The guy’s comments are terrible to the extent that my friend even wonders whether he is a psycho. It has been boring me and I just feel that I did nothing wrong in my life so far and I think that do not deserve such bad comment and it’s not right for him to give such disgraceful comment on me. Sometimes I even go into another dilemma wondering whether I should continue to write whatever I like on my blog or just to shut my blog down.
November 26th, 2009 at 7:11 pm
My biggest dilemma in life…is life itself
Whats the point we live as we’ll die in the end?
Whats the point we eat healthy and die anyway?
Whats the purpose of God putting us here?
Why do we do good when we will get preyed on by the bad ones?
Why is life always unfair to us?
so i guess…my biggest dilemma in life is life itself
what are we here for anyway? zzzz
November 26th, 2009 at 7:15 pm
My biggest dilemma in life is whether to go for backpacking & photographer or to stay back and have a successful career & with family here
Ever since I was very young I wanted to be out of my town, city and countries to see the world with my own eyes not through the pictures in the book or internet, I feel like the pictures are talking to me , asking me to go and see them. And I wanted to take down the beauty of the world through my lens , through my angle!
And I guess my blog name tells it all ” I’m living in a box, jumping out to see the world”. I am always feeling that I’m living in a box , which means within 4 walls , so organised and routine and that I got bored with my life and I started to lost interest things I do and I am totally lost and I dont know why am I here in the world the first place. However many things hold be back, especially my mother pleading me to stay in tears and telling me how much she needs my support as so. Well my mother and I are best friends and we talked to each other so much that even my friends thought I was talking to my bf or my best friend over the phone. And that is where the reliance came, she called me anytime of the day for anything, which colour of the curtain to buy, what kind of furniture should be suitable for us and funniest is she called me to tell me her toilet door are locked ???(even though I am in Kl and she is in our hometown and I’m not even the locksmith lo!!!).
So that gave me a very big challenge that whether should I leave behind my family for my dream, even though I just asked her permission for 2 years to travel and promise to contact her frequently and thats is my siblings supported me and promised to take care of her, but all I get is that Okay lah , you go lah ,go and have fun and leave us here NEVERMIND one..( which my heart soften and then I stayed). We have talk, argued and cried about this so many times until I have no choice but force to give up my dream.
So here I am still living in the box, waiting to jumping out to see the world.. I am afraid to live the life with regret, either choice I choose I guess I will be in regret. I am feeling lost and I do not know what to do with my life except waiting ! I’m in dilemma every single day of my life..
November 26th, 2009 at 7:16 pm
my biggest dilemma in life is when every i have a decision to be made… its hard for me to make a decision..
there’s alot of thing that can be done… but if i chose this.. or chose that.. some people might get hurt.. or the decision might be wrong..
November 26th, 2009 at 7:23 pm
Living with dilemmas has been and will always be part of my life. So far the biggest dilemma that i had encounter and overcome was to either choose a pure science stream or a pure non science stream. was very undecided because:
Pure science stream
-to avoid accounting and economics
-would rather meddle with sperms and bloods than with calculus calculus and calculus
-ambition was to venture into Biotech
Pure Non Science stream
-only has 9 subjects!! Science stream 10 subs
-loves Geography and Seni
-dejavu that mum would want me to go into Marketing course when college.
I ended up spending two year with Science stream but turned to E-commerce and Marketing course for Diploma, Degree…
November 26th, 2009 at 7:29 pm
My biggest dilemma. Hmph* It took me hours to come to this decision; to spill my thoughts, my biggest dilemma here with my fellow nuffnangers. FOr heck’s sake, I’m just gonna go ahead. So listen. The toughest decision I had to choose from.. was friendship, or love. Cliche much? but yes that’s exactly what it is. So I have this friend (we’ll call him Xmen), we got real close since the first time we started talking which was back in highschool.
And trust me, it’s a hell of a long story how we got to know each other. So I’m not going to get there. But you have to know is that we are connected in a way that allows male and female beings to talk on the phone for hours each day without feeling “oh shoot, i think im falling for him”. No it’s not anything like that.
After highschool, he left to Aussie for college education. I remained here, in Malaysia of course. I started to feel the distance growing between Xmen and myself, but then i thought.. He’s got to move on and concentrate on his studies, and so should I. Screw those years in highschool.
When I thought that was the end of us, apparently i was wrong. We kinda re-connected thru MSN Chat and Facebook (d’oh!). He comes back to visit me every year, during his summer holidays. Just like old times, we remained cheerful as mere friends okay! Until I started noticing he’s changed; started to say things like “i miss you badly”, even “I love you, don’t you know?” well you get the drill. Of course, he said it jokingly; or that’s wad i kept telling myself.
I knew something’s gonna happen. I knew it. He’s starting to feel things I didn’t want him to feel. Love. I didn’t want that between us, no not with Xmen. Heard of “too close for comfort”? well that’s exactly wad I felt. I love him, as a friend, too much to give our friendship up. I can’t risk that. I was stuck in a numb-mode for godknows.. months?! I couldn’t reason out what to do next.
So I chose.. to back out.
Decided that if I really loved this Xmen-person, that decision to get together with him would not be such a bitter pill to swallow. I chose.. I chose friendship over love. Yet, till now, I don’t know if I’ve made the right choice.
so .. cheers* to friendship?? =)
November 26th, 2009 at 7:33 pm
My biggest dilemma in my life is to me being too skinny. It’s not that I eat only a small portion for each meal, in fact it’s the exact opposite, I eat like a guy who hasn’t eaten in days. I can probably eat three bowls of rice for maybe lunch or dinner. This has been a real problem to me. Some people say that I have a high metabolism rate, I doubt so cause I’m not the sport type. I currently weigh 45 kg and I’m 170 cm. Now THAT’s underweight for sure.
November 26th, 2009 at 7:50 pm
Dilema terbesar dalam hidup saya setakat ini adalah sukar bertutur dan menulis dalam bahasa inggeris!!, ye memang saya tidak fasih berbahasa inggeris lebih-lebih lagi dalam pertuturan. Apa yang saya perlu buat??… dulu masa sekolah tak nak belajar betul-betul tu la sampai sekarang lambat nak pickup..
saya memang suka menyanyi lagu inggeris tapi hanya berapa kerat je perkataan yang saya faham, selebihnya saya akan belek kamus untuk mencari makna ayat. Macam mana korang boleh fasih berbahasa inggeris yek?… ada sesiapa boleh kasi aku tips cara bertutur dan menulis dalam bahasa inggeris dengan cepat?…
That is my dilemma at this moment because next year I will traveling oversea!… so i must speak in english very well after this. Nuffnang please help me to win this contest. I will learn english language through this movie. Yahoooo..!! hehehehe
November 26th, 2009 at 8:29 pm
My biggest dilemma was when I was in my early teens. I was deciding whether to commit suicide and end my life or continue on enduring life’s pain and suffering. Not getting along with my family and having no one to turn to felt like it’s me against the world. Day in, day out all I could ever contemplate about was the relief I would feel if I just put myself to permanent slumber.
Glad I’m over that stage.
November 26th, 2009 at 8:38 pm
my biggest dilemma is when i ride the bike back from work in rain. Suddenly the bike in front of me brake and I brake too and without warning the other bike in behind me didn’t brake and i accident and almost been hit by car. If i not wake up early today maybe i in heaven see my mother blogging about my life. Thanks god i’m okay now
November 26th, 2009 at 9:17 pm
My biggest dilemma in life was when I was forced to let go of someone after waiting for him for 2 entire years. Not because that I didn’t love him. It was because I had to migrate without a chance to voice out my own opinion. You have no idea how hard it was to throw out everything he ever gave me, not to mention, brainwashing myself to believe that there was nothing there to begin with.
November 26th, 2009 at 9:18 pm
my biggest dilemma in life was letting go of someone i cared for alot and my best friend. i care for both of them however they had some arguments back then and i had to choose between the both of them. i dint want to lose my best friend of course. but i guess fate will bring me to someone else in the future. right?
November 26th, 2009 at 9:40 pm
My dilemma is simple but difficult in decision making.
In next 6 hour, i gotta to chose my A.mum or B.gf.
A. mum, i can have new relationship in future for sure but i might not satisfierd and also maybe better than current. Try and error, my mum might love my new gf…
B.gf, we can continue the relationship in my dream world but, my back, mum… must have no good ending…
Chosing the mystery and the thing can see now is really difficult… Risk taker or adverse??
ans?? DILEMMA~
November 26th, 2009 at 9:53 pm
My biggest dilemma in my life so far is explaining why my name is such and that i am not some anime freak. From teachers to professors, from nurses to policemen.
It even came to a point where a policeman stopped me for a random check and asked why my name is such and …
… suggested that i change my name to Johnny.
November 26th, 2009 at 9:58 pm
My Biggest dilemma in my life is I had break up with the most amazing girl that I had ever met, she’s the girl that I loved the most till now. I had to break up with her because I could never provide her safe and promises. I think about the decision I made that day, am I making a wrong decision about her.
That’s a choice that I had made and I will ever regret.
November 26th, 2009 at 10:03 pm
My biggest dilemma is when I have to decide whether I really want to further my study in Australia with MARA sponsorship, or just leave it eventhough it’s only few months left before I flew off, just for the sake of my REAL want.
I just realized that I’m not really into the course I was in, and I just accept the offer because I want to study in oversea. And going there for free is like HEAVEN. I went through the matriculation for 1 and a half year, and just few months before going to Australia I felt like I dont want to go. I know what my heart wants but it’s not that simple. Because I know what I decide will hurt my family especially my parent’s heart. It’s so hard that I think I was like a soooooo miserable girl at that time. but I decide on my own. At last, my family did give their support after seeing how miserable I am doing something that I’m not into. And yes, I’m so happy with my life now in Malaysia doing things I like <3
November 26th, 2009 at 10:05 pm
I feel some kind of loser since i were a kids, in school, and also in the campus life. But since i am a blogger and my blog got so many attention from other bloggers, my life is quite full of cheer as it make me feel like i am being appreciated by people in cyber world. Sadly, i was and i am still in dilemma of choosing either to be a blogger or not to be one.Because my friends totally hate me because im a successful daily blogger.They starts to talk behind my back, and spread bad rumors about me and my blog.This issue is getting bigger when they start teasing me in class and as a result, it make me feel down and cant concentrates well on my study.
*sigh*
Im So In Dilemma!
November 26th, 2009 at 10:15 pm
my biggest dilemma now is to choose whether to continue my degree in Hospitality management, or to go get a job, ie : air steward, etc..
Not helping is that some parties say you dont need a degree for the hospitality line, where some parties say you do, and the degree isnt cheap either..
bah.
November 26th, 2009 at 10:22 pm
My biggest dilemma in my life so far is to slim down but I never deny tit bit/snacks. I can be eating snacks non stop but that’s making my weight keep gaining. I need to learn to control myself more than the physical action.
November 26th, 2009 at 10:32 pm
In my life the best thing is to me a dilemma recently, I have promised and friends went to Genting trip, but the family suddenly decided to go to Malacca to play, so I do not know to give up family ties, or friendship, but the end is still to be understanding the family , let me happy and friends to Genting to play. I love my family so much~
November 26th, 2009 at 10:39 pm
My biggest dilemma in life is to understand the opposite sex (girls).. They have a totally different mindset… Unlike guys, they’re tuned differently by our makers.. Like one my my close friend puts it, ‘you can’t understand them, just love them’..
November 26th, 2009 at 10:43 pm
My biggest dilemma in life would be “to work or not to work during my 3 months holidays”. Part of me didn’t want to work because I thought I deserved a break after going through so many months of pressure and stress. I have always been looking forward to say HELLO to rest-and-relax-days-with-no-worries-whatsoever. But, part of me wants to work because 3 months is really long and I wanted to be productive and not just rot at home. Besides, I strongly believe if you work hard to earn those money, you would value those Ringgits and spend it wisely.
So, that pretty much says it all.
November 26th, 2009 at 10:49 pm
The biggest dilemma in my life would be telling a lie to a person that i love most. sometimes the truth hurts, but it hurts more to see how the truth tears down a person. it’s really hard juggling between honesty and protection.
November 26th, 2009 at 10:54 pm
My biggest dilemma in life so far is whether i should undergo a Right shoulder operation or not to. Doctor said if it gets worse I will have to. If i were to undergo the operation, I will not be getting pain at my right shoulder so easily. I will be able to lift heavy objects, and do whatever activities i want without complaining bout tiredness and pain so frequently. No restriction. But if i were to undergo the operation, definitely there would be a big big scar on my Right shoulder. And I wont be able to wear spaghetti tops,or any other tops or dresses without sleeves. As a girl having such scar at such a young age definitely would love to dress up and studd, hence its pretty sad, I cant accept it. It’s really depressing though! But am still deciding. Hopefully I will get to decide soon enough.
November 26th, 2009 at 10:58 pm
Biggest dilemma in life? Hmm, this has definitely gotta do with shopping. Whenever I hit the malls or shop online and stumbled upon real pretty, gorgeous clothes/shoes/handbags/accessories, I get really tempted to buy them. Often at times, I am spoiled with choices and ended up in a dilemma because I can’t possibly buy everything that I like. Money don’t fall from sky, unfortunately.
There was once, I came across three gorgeous tops and I can only choose one out of the three items that I like. I swear, I had such a hard time and that definitely is the biggest dilemma in my life.
November 26th, 2009 at 10:59 pm
My biggest dilemma in life is to stop blogging as my husband said i spent too much on computer rather than him. :p But if i win something or my Nuffnang earnings increased, he’s the one who told me to keep on blogging..and now i’m not sure what he wants me to do actually ..haha. LOL!
November 26th, 2009 at 11:10 pm
Ever since i was a little girl, i have always wanted to please my dad. To be one of his daughters that he can be proud of. Always wanting him to see that i can succeed so much and wanting him to say how proud he is with me. Due to that, i let him make every decision for me especially in terms of education. I knew that whatever that was best for him, would be best for me and would be a way for me to make him proud.
After finished school, i was accepted to continue my study in Architecture field. At that time, God knows what Architecture was for me. I know nothing about it nor did i ever dream of becoming one. In fact i had no idea what that course was all about? That dumb huh..
I received the news from my Dad and he sounded so happy and i knew at that point of time, i would make him the happiest dad alive if i could fulfil his hope. Throughout the first and second semester, my dad was very supportive, He helped me a lot with the projects and even give me some ideas how to design good buildings. He even stayed up late just to accompany me finish my models.
But i was never a good drawer nor was i a good designer. i could hardly drew a straight line (freehand- without using ruler) without messing it up. Architecture was never my dream. I don’t have artistic talent nor do i have a mind of an architect. After my first year, my parents had to move my dad’s new working place. I was left here alone and without my dad guidance and assistance, i was lost. I was terrible in my projects given and being called up by my lecturers for several times. Each time i presented my ideas, i was rejected badly and bombarded quite harshly by my lecturers. I knew at that point of time, i have to give up.
I wanted to give up so badly and was thinking to switch to another course but i couldn’t find the guts to tell my dad. I knew he would be crushed and disappointed in me. After all i was his proud daughter. I overheard him telling my aunt that i would make a good architect someday. I was devastated. I couldn’t bring myself to tell him how i felt and what i was going through at that time.
I was caught between the toughest decision of my life. Either i continue with the course or i quit and start new with different course that i knew would best fit my ability. I locked myself for a few days to get myself to think of what i should do with my life at that time. I knew that i would definitely crush his heart, his hope and his dream if i decided to quit but if i didn’t i would ruin my own life by having to repeat the same subjects over and over again. No matter how hard i worked, i could never come up with something extraordinary.
But i knew, i had to choose between my life and my dad’s dream. What i did was, i quit architecture without acknowledging him first coz i knew if i told him, he would try so hard to convince me to stay and try harder. When i told him that i had quit, he was devastated. He barely talked to me ever since until i was accepted to start on a new course. I studied hard and managed to keep my pointer above than the average, hoping that my dad would give me a second chance to repay his frustration over me.
I further my study to degree level and now working in one of the international bank. My dad started to come around seeing me having a good life, a good job and a happy smile on my face. I knew i had make him proud even though i couldn’t fulfil his dream. I knew now that i had made the best decision over my biggest dilemma in my life.
p/s: i hope i didn’t bore you guys reading such a long comment. Hope i get the tickets to repay my frustration over the failure of not receiving the New Moon tickets. God knows how sad i was..huhuhhu..
November 26th, 2009 at 11:10 pm
the biggest dilemma in my life , the moment when my dearest parent have their arguments.. i really afraid of this…whenever it happen… i never know what to do…for a moment i will pull both away from getting closer… and the other hand…i have to talk good thing in front each one…>.< Both of them think their own way… they both will always have their own stand and never give up…huuuuuu…. complicated!~*
November 26th, 2009 at 11:20 pm
my biggest dilemma happened few weeks ago..
either to blog again or not after i realised that i’m not Glitterati blogger anymore… =.=”
if i’m not glitterati i cant even take part and win all the premiere tickets.. XD
November 26th, 2009 at 11:21 pm
One of my biggest dilemmas this year was to choose between two gorgeous, absolutely hawt stuff! I was torn between the two choices, and even after consulting my friends and family, all seem to have different opinion of my two choices. It was almost like the Edward vs Jacob dilemma in New Moon!
In the end, after thinkin bout it long and hard, and countless sleepless night, I made my choice. And never look back since.
And I picked……
…Nikon D5000. Sorry Canon 500D, but the better DSLR won!~ :)
November 26th, 2009 at 11:21 pm
Hmm.. For my biggest dilemma in life so far i needed to think for a while. As conclusion i think my biggest dilemma would be whether want to choose advertlets or nuffnang when i just start blogging. When i just start blogging, advertlets consider as the big company already compared to nuffnang… A lot of my friend are using advertlets and their suggest me to use it also. However, i do heard some bad comment about advertlets also… And finally, i had chosen nuffnang and i never regret for my choice… Nuffnang had given out so much surprise for me so far…
November 26th, 2009 at 11:27 pm
My biggest conflict is what to name my two hamsters.
My sis suggested Soya Bean & Cincau
My frens wanted me to name it after them; Kim & Jan
My cousin sis suggested Chip & Bacon
As for now, I am callin them Black One & White One (due to my lack of creativity)
Really one of my BIGGEST conflict so far!
November 26th, 2009 at 11:29 pm
My biggest dilemma is basically realizing that we have to die as human. It sucks. I mean, what’s the point of humanity then? What’s all of us moving towards? What made us? God? and what made God then? Questions always remain unanswered. I find myself thinking a lilbit too much. It sucks. But it’s been a dilemma to me. Why do humans have to die? Why we earn money and be successful just to die? I have no idea. Is it cool ? No. Answer me. Please.
November 26th, 2009 at 11:49 pm
My biggest dilemma is at 32, i am still clueless as to what I want in life. I want to change job but do not know where to go or what to do. I am stuck in a dead-end job with no job satisfaction but am afraid to make the jump, fearing that the job market is bad. I am not getting any younger and i need to think about my future hard…..and quick!….help!
November 26th, 2009 at 11:51 pm
the biggest dilemma nw is to choose whether wanna go pee or stay here continue writing this comment. LOL
ok done. go pee now. haha
November 27th, 2009 at 12:09 am
my biggest dilemma is, if I win the movie tickets, would I be willing to fork out the taxi fees which is more expensive than both the tickets added together (I stay in cheras) just to watch blue creatures kiss?
November 27th, 2009 at 12:16 am
let’s see here..
my biggest dilemma would be to make a choice of continue to pursue my studies or keep on applying for pilot cadetship while working.
if i continue to pursue my studies, i’ll risk having to give up the oppurtunity if i’m selected the cadetship, as i couldnt give up my current studies for it. where my mom had paid the fees.
but if i just work while applying, what i end up is just some working experience and some money in the bank. without any higher education qualification..=.=:..the only good point is if i’m accepted as a cadet pilot..i can just enroll straight away..=D
that’s why, after thinking about it, i decided to do both of it, study as an aircraft maintenance engineer trainee and at the same time, apply the pilot cadetship.
i’m pretty sure this is the best choice and thankfully, i overcomed my dilemma, i hope jake will do so too in the movie..=D
November 27th, 2009 at 12:24 am
My biggest dilemma is of course my studies!!!
You see, at first I had been studying engineering for two years. but i couldn’t cope with it. My grades were terrible. During my first year, it was already horrible, but i wanted to prove to everyone that girls can be an engineer too. so i forced myself. but things turn out to be worst. at that time, i did not know what can i do, either continue my year three or, change course. Dilemma dilemma dilemma.
So right now I’m studying business admin and i am two years older than my coursemates but im not ashamed by my age. We get along very well. My family have been very supportive with my decision. and most importantly, I’m happier. and my grade is getting better.
November 27th, 2009 at 12:41 am
my dilemma in life was when i was forced to choose between religion and my boyfriend. as my religion is against getting together with other of different religion, i went head on with it. choose boyfriend which is now my hubby. still not giving up hope that one day my dear will understand and choose the same religion as me!
November 27th, 2009 at 1:46 am
my biggest dilemma in life has to be choosing how to spend my money.
there are tons of things in this world worth my money. i can buy clothes, cars and jewellery.
but i certainly cannot buy happiness and neither can i buy nuffnang-invite-only-passes-to-watch-AVATAR!
i mean i could have a million bucks and buy a movie ticket but what makes the nuffnang screening so, so nice is the chance to watch with all the other nuffnangers!
November 27th, 2009 at 1:49 am
I think most of the people got their own dilemma in their life. So do I too.
One of my dilemma is when I still in my university study for my Degree. That’s was the time I found my dream – Acting. I joined some drama class, attend some society club drama stage performance, and in the end I felt in love with acting. Thus, I went and tried some casting for TVC and Local TV series. Fortunately, I got some of the featured character and appear on screen but some just extra for the shooting. At that moments, I really enjoy with all those casting, shooting, acting etc etc. I can acting whoever I like. It just like being the real of me, myself. But back to the realistic of life, I failed some of my subject due to I spend most of my time for my acting dream. My dad felt disappointed. That is the moment I having my 1st dilemma in my life. I need to decide either to stay with my acting dream or give up and concentrate on my degree. To be a filial / good son of my dad, I decided to gave up my acting dream, and promised him to get a Degree certificate first only pursuit my dream.
3 years later, now. I have a chance to pursuit my acting dream again after I been graduated for almost a year. Currently working full time as online advertising sales. As sales line i can earn enough every months. Few weeks back, one of my friend he were going to direct a on stage drama with some others famous directors. He invited me to be one of the main actor for his drama. I was really happy to got invitation by him. His invitation remind me of what was my dream which I wanted to make it real 3 years ago. Today, I’m no longer a student , I can do whatever I like! I can pursuit my dream now! But… here I have my dilemma again, yeah although I have no commitment for any study certificate anymore. But now I got another more heavy commitment which is my work. If I accept the invitation, I going to spend more than 4 days per week to practice, and to perform I need to have more leaves from my working hours. It will totally against my working careers. I facing my dilemma for either to give up my work now and re-pursuit my dream? Or decline the invitation? Decline the chance of my dream and continue working earning money for future sake?
Dream more important? Or Money more important? Dilemma killing me!
Anyway, that’s the dilemma still unsolved until today. Hope after watch this AVATAR movie, I can solve my dilemma. Of course , it would need Nuffnang to give me FREE ticket first. Thanks! =)
November 27th, 2009 at 4:08 am
My biggest dilemma in life so far is decide what is the best future road I have to go~
First of all……We life in this earth is goes for successful life, and no one would like to go for failure!
The steps that we have to take now is very important! either lead u to a success or failure!
however, once we choose the path~ no matter how we still have to go for it till the end! its just depend on how we all going to solve the problem!
So…….Now I have to make a choose which road i have to go for it which is very troublesome for me……..coz we have no second chance in my life……so……..that is my biggest dilemma in my life so far~~
November 27th, 2009 at 5:22 am
I think my biggest dilemma in life would be blood. I can’t really stand watching myself or other people bleeding..leave alone witnessing an operation…lol…
Else I would be a successful doctor by now…
November 27th, 2009 at 9:09 am
My biggest dilemma in life so far is the time when I had to choose where to go for my tertiary education. My choice was either to leave my hometown for a course that suited me more, or to stay at hometown with family for one less favored. Finally, I went on with the first choice and I’m thankful that I’ve got the full support from my family and everything turned out great. Thinking back of it, I’m glad that I’ve made that choice.
November 27th, 2009 at 9:42 am
My biggest dilemma so far is to choose what to eat!
Everytime I go to a food court or any place with extensive menus I face this dilemma of not knowing what to order because I want to order everything! How? Spaghetti or lasagna? Char Koay Teow or Fried Rice? Big pau or Small Pau? AAaaaRRggghhhh!!!
November 27th, 2009 at 11:42 am
My biggest dilemma is by far, how to juggle between my social life and studies. Ever since I’ve entered college, my social life seems to have caught me and slowly pulling me away from my studies. Most of my time are spent with my friends, going out, despite me knowing I should be studying. Be it exams or tests, i can’t seem to study these days and can only think of going out.
Now, I’m trying to change my lifestlye by being a ‘nerd’, trying my best to study as hard as I can, and to take a break from my social life, but it’s easier said than done. But there is another way, where i can balance them up, by doing them both at the same time. But time doesn’t say so. Brainiac, I am not, but trying to be one, I am.
November 27th, 2009 at 11:44 am
I never had to face with any major dilemmas before this. Not until now, where I’m at this crossroad of life. I’m more of a person who thinks and plans for the future instead of the current one. I like to be in the known, like what’s going to happen after this and so on. I like to look ahead and figure my life out. But, the sad truth is, I do not know. I can only plan, plan and plan but at the end of the day, I’m not the one who determines it.
There’s the past, the present and the future. The past is real and it’s always gonna be there. The present is the past rushing into the future; the point where both meet – now. And the future is what it is: some great unknown. Our lives are made up of the past, the present and the future. Equal attention must be paid to all three. Learn from the past. Live in the present. Hope in the future.
The whole journey really starts now. But, I’m too uncertain of what the future holds.
Maybe, it might be just another small matter for whoever reading this out there, because clearly you’ve been there done that. But, this is my calling… like right now, therefore it’s also my biggest dilemma in my life for now.
November 27th, 2009 at 11:49 am
My biggest dilemma in life so far :
It would be making a choice from so much options!
17th December would be my exam week.. And also the premier of AVATAR!
I have to choose to STAY AT HOME AND STUDY or GO FOR THE MOVIE..
Of course.. I can choose win-win method..
Which is start studying right now.. and PRAY hard everyday so that NuffNang would send me free ticket for the MOVIE PREMIER..
It’s like to kill two bird with one stone..
In this case, to kill my boredness of study with AVATAR movie TICKET!!! xD
November 27th, 2009 at 11:52 am
I had this dilemma, which is to choose my studies or my love one.
During my Form 5 school days, I was asked to decide my path whether to stay in Malaysia or further my studies in Singapore.
However, my boyfriend was forced to stay in Malaysia, due to single parent condition, he was needed to stay and take care of his younger sister.
I did not want to leave him either, but I wanted myself to have a bright and secured future.
So I was struggling with all these choices, try to make a wise and rationale choice so that I won’t hurt anyone, especially him.
We had been discussing about it each night, and i almost cried in every night as I couldn’t bear the pain and the stress of making a right decision.
In the end, I had chosen not to leave and stayed.
But our love still faded after a few months I’ve entered a local college.
Eventhough we did not make it through, I still appreciate a lot this relationship.
At least, I have all these bitter and sweet memories.
Hope that both of us will have a bright future, and I still can have a successful life without further my studies in another country.
November 27th, 2009 at 12:22 pm
Perhaps the biggest dilemma of my life was when I was finishing my Masters in London: my girlfriend was going back to Malaysia, and I was going to Nigeria. What was our future? I had to decide whether to trust her, swear faithfulness, and promise to meet her again and try to make our relationship work; or just go with the wind and see what happened.
I made the right choice. Eight years later, we are married, and we are going to have a baby soon :D
November 27th, 2009 at 12:41 pm
My biggest dilemma in life so far would definitely be something that happened this year and it was all about studies.. I’m currently doing A-levels and taking pre-engineering subject.. The dilemma was whether or not to drop out of A-levels after a whole 5 months of studying it.. The reason for it was that I realised that I wanted to study either Journalism or Psychology.. And I don’t want to do anything Science related.. But at the same time, I wasn’t thoroughly convinced to do American Degree Programme because I did not want to regret my decision.. Plus everyone kept telling me that I should try to study medicine and be a doctor, to help people..
That was one of the most confusing times ever in my life, and I recall crying every night because I was so afraid I would make the wrong decision and regret it for the rest of my life.. I did not want to spend the rest of life doing something I did not like, or something that I will fail at..
Ultimately I decided to stick to A-levels and complete it.. Just to buy myself more time to think, in case I really do decide to do medicine.. I think I made the right decision, though now the doubts are rolling in because A-levels Physics and Maths are getting a little crazy.. LOL..
And so there u have it.. The story of the biggest dilemma in my life so far.. *fingers crossed it’s good enough to win the tickets*
November 27th, 2009 at 12:47 pm
The dilemma of the life of the one called Serge is his inability to accept the thanks and please of those around him. Pay it forward, never receiving payment in p’s and q’s . Always stopping the other party from saying those words, thus that is the dilemma of the life and of the day we are dilemma-ed with the ugly truth that Serge is currently looking for a job for he has bills to pay here and there.
November 27th, 2009 at 12:57 pm
my biggest dilemma is that right now i am not sure what am i going to do in the future. i missed out a chance in getting into local U because my stpm result is shit. but i don’t mind though, coz i don’t even like local Unis. now that i am working i am saving up money or should i say, i am hoarding money hahah wtf. but i have no idea what am i going to do with those money. i skipped lunch and all just to hoard money, like, wtf is wrg with me?? but family members suggested that i go for a study and need not brw from ptptn. but, is studies any important than working experience that i have now? all of my seniors told me that experience i more important!
and because i am still young and all i would like to spend the money to travel around before i gets old, you see? it’s nice to read all the travel experience from Cheesie and Aud and Sweatlee but when am i going to get the chance to travel like them if one day i really spend all the money to studies? by the end of studies, i will head back to work again and i think i will lost the chance and mood to travel already.
sigh la, why my dilemma so stupid one??? =.=
November 27th, 2009 at 1:11 pm
my current dilemma is; should i stay with my boring job and and rot, or quit and be penniless for month or two.
November 27th, 2009 at 1:28 pm
My biggest dilemma so far was to choose the course and profession that I want to be in and where to do it. Both of this gave me quite a big headache right after I finished my pre-university studies since I got to make a rush decision if I want to make it for the August, September or November intake.
Course? I do not know exactly what I want since I do not really know what I am good at. It was a choice between marketing, accounting, finance and business. In the end, I ended up taking accounting and finance, following my teenage dreams and without thinking any further cause I know if I continue to think what I really want to take, I will not come up with any decision at all. =S
Where? This was quite a problem too since I am having some financial constrains and choosing a university was never easy. Being very particular since I am expected to spend 3 years in university, there’s so many factors that I looked into. I want to really enjoy my time in university and not spending time regretting after I made my decision.
I even wrote a post or two in my blog about this dilemma that I was having. Here’s the link to it if you want to read: http://michleong.blogspot.com/2009/07/choices.html
Asked my friends, seniors, forums and family members for their opinion too. It took quite a while to reach a final decision. I have finally made my choice after receiving my A-levels result (to which Cambridge had change it later due to some “technical mistakes”. Argh..). I still have some doubts on whether it was the right decision or not since I think, I am not smart enough to excel in anything =( But since I have stuck my head into this, I’ll just have to go on. My parents will kill me if I decided to back off now, after having to pay so much. Haha..
Life is tough and it’s NEVER easy. There maybe much more dilemmas in future that I will have to face. But that is to be worried later on. For now, I’ll just enjoy what I have. =D
November 27th, 2009 at 3:05 pm
My biggest dilemma in my life for now happened in March 2009 which I had to choose whether to start a relationship with a guy I know during my internship in an IT company whom I liked very much because the people (siblings and best friend) around me disagree with it, saying that he is not suitable for me and he is actually too dangerous for me and saying that he will hurt me eventually. I was quite upset as the people I care did not support me. I liked the guy very much and had strong feeling on him which I never felt before.Furthermore, he is not too bad. I had to choose whether to follow my feeling and trust myself or follow the analysis which have done by people around me upon their experience in life. I was in dilemma because I know that people around me love me and do not want me to get hurt but I wished to follow my feeling at the same time. So, at the end, I started with him but ended month ago. Even though it did not last long, I learned a lot in this relationship as I finally know what kind of relationship I want in future instead of just follow the feeling 100% without thinking deeper and further whether both parties can really get together in the future or not. Although I have broken up with him, I have no regrets at all because I was the one who made the decision for myself, not others. I think I will regret in the future if I didn’t start with him due to the ‘analysis’ from others. Besides, I also learned a lot from him such as the way to handle things and he expended my horizon as well by telling me there are so much things out there for me to grab and to experience,think wider and work harder, then the world will be different. So, I think that make your own life decision by yourself will be the best since there is no 100% correct or wrong decision anyway. As long as you make it by your own, there’s no regret at all and you will not blame others for any unhappy stuff. You lead your own life, so make your OWN decision. =)
November 27th, 2009 at 3:24 pm
My biggest dilemma? Having to think up something highly disturbing to win this contest. Here I am typing this out and I still haven’t thought of something sufficiently mind-blowing. Then again why the need for all the drama?
Oh wait. Leaving a comment here does not qualify as a dilemma, you say? Crap, now I have to think of something else. I’ll be back when I figure something out, haha.
November 27th, 2009 at 4:51 pm
THE BIGGEST DILEMMA IN MY LIFE SO FAR IS…
I am not been able to read these sentences properly..can somebody help me with these?:
1. Je veux regarder ce Avatar Décembre
2. Ich möchte Avatar im Dezember dieses Jahres zu sehen
3. Θέλω να παρακολουθήσετε Avatar αυτό το Δεκέμβριο
4. 私は今年12月にアバターを見たい
5. 난 12 월 아바타보고 싶어
6. من می خواهم به تماشای این آواتار یدلایمخیرات دسامبر
7. Quiero ver Avatar de diciembre de este año
8. Jag vill titta på Avatar i december
But i believe no matter how you read them, it still translated into one single and common sentence.
“I want to watch Avatar this December”!!!
November 27th, 2009 at 6:52 pm
My biggest dilemma so far is to choose between friendship and love. It is almost impossible to choose one fo them as both are equally important to me in my life. As they said, Friends are forever but love might be only a fortnight or something. If someone chose love from those two… He/she might lose both of them. However, in this story… It involves not only love but the whole entire tribe. Therefore, the dilemma is of cause dreadful for a person to hold.
November 27th, 2009 at 8:28 pm
My biggest dilemma in life is deciding whether to eat to live or live to eat.. HMMPH
November 27th, 2009 at 8:47 pm
My biggest dilemma in life so far, is about my life as a teenage blogger. My parents and other family members of mine have no idea at all that I have a blog. Same goes to my classmates and teachers. My life in the cyberspace and in reality, is absolutely different.
I do not show the real me in my real life. I appear as a silent boy in front of people. But in my blog, I go all out. I sound like a talkative person.
I am so afraid if somehow my family, friends or teachers spot the blog of mine, and figure out about what I am like, in the internet! I cannot imagine that, I’ll be so ashamed! It’s just that I think I have low confidence level, that is why I do not act keenly in front of them.
November 27th, 2009 at 9:09 pm
my biggest dilemma now is to continue my further study with a master or another degree with consist of “2 degrees”…if i go for master..i will have a shorter time to finish everything…but if the double degree indeed longer time..but future i can earn more money….dilemma dilemma dilemma..
November 27th, 2009 at 9:25 pm
There’s no biggest dilemma for my life but a dilemma for today.
As for today, I have hit someone car accidentally without notice. This sounds so stupid because I hit his car when I was paying for toll. I was wondering should I just drive away after paying the toll or stop at the side to pay him. Poor me, I just lost my RM100.
November 27th, 2009 at 11:11 pm
My biggest dilemma in life so far is to decide to have my own baby or not in future. Start thinking of this problem after watched the movie “2012″. If our earth really will come to the end in a day, it is so cruel to our child.
November 27th, 2009 at 11:14 pm
My biggest dilemma will be the choice whether I will be continue to study in my college or go abroad with my girlfriend.
I could not leave my course because machines and buildings are my life.
My girl friend wants to leave Malaysia to HongKong for her Tourism course and work at there for a decade and more.
If i stop my study, I will be regret forever but I could not leave my most dearest Rika away. We have been together for 5 years. How could I leave her like that.
It just few weeks away before we decide to “Berpisah” or I sacrifice for you.
Both will be the worst Choice ever in my life, I Love You Forever, Rika! ->29-12-2009
What should I do?
November 27th, 2009 at 11:57 pm
my dilemma is i don’t really enjoy festive season *expecially when it comes to face the extended family* and have to be all nice or else someone will be talking about you.but then,if i decided not to go and celebrate the festive season,my family will be the one who will smack the out of me,telling me that im forgetting the family.dilemma can be hard on you.i guess when it comes to family,u better just go along with them.despite you don’t really into it.heh~
November 28th, 2009 at 12:19 am
My biggest dilemma in life so far is whether I should become an air stewardess right now or to continue my studies and give up on the hostess job. Despite being labelled as “high-class maid”, air stewardess has always been my dream job. It’s cool to be able to travel to different places and get to know people from all over the world. Pretty sure I would enjoy my job to the fullest. But at the same time, if I were to start working now, chances that I would continue my studies is really low. In the future, can I really survive without a degree? What shoud I do??? =(
November 28th, 2009 at 12:21 am
Working in a government setting is always the worst feeling u ever will feel…. and get bonded with them is pulling myself to hell. Bureaucracy and hierarchy systems in the government departments not only provide idiotic and stupid services to the people of the nation, but also making those who are working in the service loss of motivation and enthusiasm to serve people…… Working in a government sectors with no choice due to the bond is already making me very miserable. But working under incompetence supervisors, under-knowledge seniors and lazy co-workers are drowning me with frustration…..
My worst case dilemma is whether to tell my boss off that she is a boss and is stupid enough for making all those idiotic decisions or just shut my big mouth and move on with my life miserably…..?????
Or another case, is to tell a senior that her mouth is bigger than her brain when she is teaching me things that i learned in my first year college, or just smile and her and praise her that she is a one hell smart lady???????
Someone told me once, when u work in government…. Open one eye, close another eye… Or You your left ear to listen, and you your right ear to ignore…. Haiiizzz…
I hope my boss don’t have Nuffnang account…. or else she will definitely transfer me to another place when she read this comment….
November 28th, 2009 at 1:20 am
Avatar seems to be a really good show! :)
After reading all the comments posted by others, I guess my current biggest dilemma being experienced is to think of a comment good enough to be chosen as one of the bloggers to get the invites to the premiere screening…
Oh well. At least I’m being honest now =/
Haha. Thanks Nuffnang! xD
-khaisim-
November 28th, 2009 at 1:46 am
My biggest dilemma in life so far is choosing between conforming, and staying true to who I am, and would like to be known as.
Let’s face it. Not everyone is suited to the drinking, clubbing, coming back at 3am lifestyle. But many see it as the only way to be social, to be a part of the nightlife that many follow. It’s bad for your health, it screws up your work performance, and it isn’t easy on the wallet, but yet it still remains til this day, a viable option in “having a life”.
I think however, that we should enjoy life the way we want it – as above, or through other things – sports, friends, events!
November 28th, 2009 at 1:47 am
My biggest dilemma in life so far is right now, trying to remember what was my biggest dilemma in life so far. I can’t think of any. What does that mean? That my life has been dull and uninteresting? Or that I am lazy and unambitious, having never had a goal for myself that I worried about not reaching? Or that I am shallow and superficial, since all I want right now is to score a free preview to some movie, which I really really want because it’s James Freaking Cameron, folks, one of the best film directors ever and it’s his first film in oh God that’s it isn’t it?? The most important thing in my life is a movie! How inane and trivial is that!! I am shallow and superficial!!! Aaaauuugghh!!!!
November 28th, 2009 at 2:21 am
While Jake Sully is facing a dilemma between his fellow humans and the love of his life, most of us here in the real world will have something similar to that as well…
The dilemma in my life will usually begin with my friends and end with my parents. Its always cool to have friends of all different kinds. There’s the whacky spontaneous ones and the are also the nice and caring ones. The whacky ones will always cook-up something that will bound to end up south and its the kind that will give u an adrenaline rush. The Nice and carings ones will always think of you and will tell you what is right to do , the only set back with the nice ones is that they are too nice and they will let you down on something that they promised. All because , thats the right thing to do.
So, being stuck in the middle put me in a situation where i need to make a choice that changed my my life. As much I loved the adrenaline pumping in and out, i’ve decided to stay with the nice ones, cuz they are the one who will be with you till the end. As For the setbacks, I can understand the reason and i can live with it… and they will never be the bad person for doing the right thing.
So, how did the whole thing ends up at with my parents ? well easy my parents are my guides , they tell me what to do when i can’t decide and shed some light on my path so that i stay on the right track.
November 28th, 2009 at 2:37 am
my biggest dilemma right now is thinking hard to win this premiere screening of Avatar and make myself to enjoy this movie on its first release date on Malaysia!!!
November 28th, 2009 at 4:02 am
My biggest dilemma in my life is when i’ve got an offer to work at VADS Berhad, KL or still work as temporary staff at SPR.
I know my family won’t give me to work at KL.
And I lie to my family that VADS Berhad offer me but the truth is, i’m going to KL 4 interview.
I told my family, don’t have to worry bout me coz my friend also work at there.
Until now, they don’t know the truth.
Euuuwww.
Anak derhaka!
=)
November 28th, 2009 at 4:04 am
My biggest dilemma so far has been the part where I’m trying to think of what my biggest dilemma’s are so far so that I can write in to win the tickets for this premiere mainly because I’ve got too many big dilemmas like am I gonna get to go to this premiere or not with this dilemma,..=)
November 28th, 2009 at 4:26 am
My biggest dilemma in life so far is that i always have to choose between something in life. Work or studies, studies or boyfriend, boyfriend or friends, college friends or blogger friend? nuffnang or adsense? Why cant i have both? Well, i hope nuffnang can give me passes to watch the screening so i can watch with my love ones unless i will be staying at home . =( that is a big time dilemma.
November 28th, 2009 at 6:57 am
The biggest dilemma I’m facing these days is whether to get a tattoo.
I don’t want a big or colourful one, but just a medium-sized tatt on my shoulder or ankle?
But due to religious suppression, I’m not allowed to. I’m now torn between obeying my parents’ outright ban, and the social obligation of being ‘cool’.
Ah, the pressures of teenagers these days.
November 28th, 2009 at 7:31 am
My big dilemma is get two tickects from Nuffnang . This is because I have choosed
from to win from my post here…hehhe
http://www.keemzone.com/?p=139
thanks Nuffnang!
November 28th, 2009 at 8:56 am
My biggest dilemma in life so far is by choosing my major career among dancer or IT engineer. I had been dancing since young in various type of dances and get to perform all around the world in a group. I joined numbers of competition as well and even went to Beijing, China for chinese culture dance examination. As you can see, I put in a lot of effort in dancing which transform from interest into career throughout the years.
On the other hand, I’m also a computer savvy since secondary school whereby I used to do research on Internet knowledge, playing around with Google and etc. I’m a master student for Information System Engineering from UTAR. However, I can really see a bright future in this career which I expert in.
So, on choosing my career between dancing and internet technology, I do struggling for sometimes and unemployed for around half year.
The benefits on choosing dancing will be a dream for me since I was young. To own myself a big and cool dance studio, teaching dance all over the place, performing on stage to feel the applause from the audience and so on. If you really get famous in this field, your reputation will lead to wealth as well. Slowly you can transform your dance into business line.
However, IT field is really the most popular industry around the world and you can really find a stable job with high pay most of the time base on your background. This job is more stable compare with dance industry. The main reason is, I can either choose one of the career. I can’t do another job on the same time which eventually will affect my major career. So, this is really the biggest dilemma for me, hope that the god could give me a sign or two.
November 28th, 2009 at 10:36 am
Woo, want to watch this movie, so here it goes
Well, I am still young so,
My biggest dilemma in life so far is to choose between study or contests. Example, you guys know about Project Alpha right? I wanted to submit a post about it but I can’t cause that contest crushed to my exam, and the next day I’ll have Sejarah paper(that I did the worst), and I like to join contests online, cause it’s like fun? yeap, but sometime, the exam just don’t let. By the way, going to have PMR next year :D!Still got a long time? Don’t think so.
November 28th, 2009 at 10:52 am
My biggest dilemma so far is choosing time to spend with friends or families. There’s a saying ‘running out of time’ that fits me a lot. To me, both friends and families are important. Without a family, there will be no me. Without friends, I cannot imagine what life would be. Sometimes I have to make a decision – to go out with friends or spend some quality time with my family. I want to maintain a good relationship between both friends and families, but sometimes I just have to choose between them. I hope I don’t hurt them by doing so, yet I end up having a guilty feeling.
November 28th, 2009 at 11:37 am
My biggest dilemma currently is to decide whether to continue my study or to look for a job. Since I am the eldest in my family, I felt miserable to burden my parents anymore. People keep saying that it is enough to have only Degree qualification, but to further Master study is not everyday chances. Well, I am thinking maybe I will be doing both, looking for a job & continue study.
Another dilemma I am having is, if I continue my study, I don’t feel like staying home but to rent a house with my friends. But my mother doesn’t seem to approve, because she always keep saying she’s been missing her daughter & wanted me to be around her on weekends & weekdays. Well, it is hard to please the one we love & our self.
November 28th, 2009 at 12:00 pm
my biggest dilemma..
quit school this year.. didn’t take SPM this year..
plan to take SPM next year..
but my boyfriend told me to take SPM after get married with him..
next year.. haha..
this is crazy!!!
i can’t think..
all the best for your SPM dear.. _^
November 28th, 2009 at 12:12 pm
biggest dilemma in life so far is being asked by gf, ” do you look at other girls?”. obviously i cant be answering yes and if i answer no, she will say that im lying with the reason every guy look at other girls. screw up either way.
November 28th, 2009 at 12:33 pm
The biggest dilemma so far in my life is between family and friends. Theres this one time my relative was sick and at the same time on of my friend were involved in the accident. Both of them were in critical condition and i had a hard time deciding which to go. If i don’t visit both, i will not see them for the last time. One is in Ipoh and the other is in Johor. One is my family member and the other is my close friend. In the end i visited both of them. I visited my relative first who is in Ipoh and rush back on the same day to Johor to visit my friend. Thank God i manage to see them for the last time or i will regret it for the rest of my life.
November 28th, 2009 at 12:51 pm
I am a very uncertain person, so my life full with Dilemmas.
MY biggest dilemma in my life is choosing the path of my life
Few months ago, my mum offer me a chance to go to Australia to further study next year February
Or go to United Kingdom (which is my dream since i was young).
However, that is a condition to study in UK which is I have to stay in Malaysia for one more year and the course which I choose is one of the hardest exam in Malaysia.
If I fail to achieve the result, I will stay in Malaysia for the rest of my degree.
I dare not pick up this challenge and yet I wish I can fulfill mY dream.
After a month of consideration, I make a decision which is I take up the challenge,
I believe as long as I study hard and concentrate I can score flying colour in my FINAL.
Now, I still struggling in the course.
I just want to pass a message to each of every blogger-
Believe What you want to Believe and everything will go smooth
November 28th, 2009 at 1:07 pm
i always in dilemma especially after having a meal..how come im having a stomach ache (should go to toilet) after having a meals!its a waste right..
November 28th, 2009 at 1:40 pm
My biggest dilemma in life so far is whether to work or to learn different dances after my finals between the period of waiting for the results and to send Uni application. This period of time would be approximately 3 months or maybe even 5months.
If i were to work, i can earn money. And on the other hand, i can help to ease my parents burden as well as use part of the money for shopping and savings. The cons is, i couldn’t achieve my short-term goal to learn different dances as dancing is my passion. I’m currently learning ballet, people who knows about ballet well enough, knows that it’s an expensive dance. Yes, i do need the money.
If i were to opt for dancing, yes i’d love the feeling of it. To dance other genre of dances available other than what i’m currently learning. If i’m really good at it, i might become some super star’s dancer in the future! To be able to perform and go for performances for something that i really enjoy doing. That’s really great right? But to think of it again, this will only increase my parent’s burden.
However, i’m thinking about a solution. To kill two birds with one stone. As i’ve said above, i couldn’t give up ballet as i love dancing. So i can only work part time job so as not to interupt my ballet sessions. If so i wouldn’t earn as much. And when i’m done giving my parents their share, my savings and some pocket money, i don’t think i’ll have any left! So, if i were to learn different genre of dances, of course i have to pay for it right? Ends up, my parents have to pay for it. So everything is back to zero right?
And to top that, i have a younger sister learning ballet and the youngest learning piano whom is going to learn ballet next year as well. Not to forget, our monthly expenses for food, petrol etc. Oh, and my sister’s tuition fees, my youngest sister’s kindergarden fees. Plus, my Uni tuition fees in the future where i might be going overseas to further my studies!
Somehow, it looks like a little dilemma in the beginning. But after my explanations and expands and developments(essay speaking), yes, it’s a BIG, HUGE, HUMONGEST dilemma. Everything relates to one another!
HELP ME NUFFNANG!! by sparing me some tickets to go watch Avatar. Or maybe you’re generous enough, you’d offer me internships? Teehee, kidding about that internship part =p
November 28th, 2009 at 3:45 pm
I think I’m the biggest dilemma of my parents. Hahaha. ;)
Anyways this is about my dilemma. My biggest dilemma is about choosing between my academics and other activities such as hobbies, blogging, events, clubs. Because of the huge amounts of time required to either do well in either, I have to choose to either do well in one, or do averagely in both, or not sleep and do well in both. =P
I have not solved this dilemma and I hope by watching the movie I’ll gain the inspiration to do so.
November 28th, 2009 at 3:46 pm
My biggest dilemma life is the need to pay monthly bills! Phone bills, internet bills, car road tax, insurance, electric bills, water bills! End of the month, i’ll only be left with 50% of my monthly wages. How bad can life be?
November 28th, 2009 at 4:06 pm
My biggest dilemma is to choose who to bring to Nuffnang Movie premiere.
Among them are my boy friend, my brother and my sister.
I always wants to watch movie with my boy friend but as a nice and fair big sister at home, I have to spare some chance for my beloved siblings.
To be fair enough, I will see who am I with every time I saw new post on Movie Premiere. Fate… At random…
Most importantly, to see who treat me the best on the moment. Hahaha…
For this coming movie premiere if I get it… My next dilemma is my boy friend and my brother. My boy friend is with me now but I want to reward my brother after his SPM.
But see how my boy friend treat me for coming days and to see whether my brother is sticking with Maple story or not.
Dilemma..
November 28th, 2009 at 5:04 pm
My biggest dilemma was 10 years ago when i have to choose between my career and my parents. As a singer and single and always being independent at that time, i have to travel overseas to work. But my parents thought being a girl is not good to travel far from them. I was stubborn and chose to leave home and work overseas. After 1 and a half years leaving home to work, i’ve never regret a single minute for NOT Listening to my parents cos i’ve met my beautiful kind husband. I know i made my parents angry but after returning safely to home i’m sure they’ll always forgive their stubborn daughter!
November 28th, 2009 at 7:15 pm
My biggest dilemma so far is when I have to choose between IPTA or IPTS after my Matriculation studied. I’m in dilemma cause if I went to Universiti Malaysia Kelantan (IPTA) I’ll learn something that I don’t like which is Agriculture. But if I choose to be in Management & Science University (IPTS) taking Food Technology, I have to pay all the fees using my own money. The problem is, I’m not from rich family.
But then, my parents really support me to do what I like. They tried to pay the 1st semester fees. Lucky me, i get MARA loan. So now, I’m struggling for the highest cGPA so that my loan can be convert into scholarship.
I think this is the biggest dilemma so far in my life, but I’ve made the right choice. Thanks to my parents that supporting me all this while. Really appreciate that. Maybe I can give this movie tickets to them. I hope so.
November 28th, 2009 at 8:55 pm
my biggest dilemma was choosing between science or arts stream when i first entered form 4. i was more interested to pursue accountancy compared to biology. however, my parents wamted me to go foe science stream. i follow their wishes and spent two years studying biology, chemistry and physics. when i got my SPM results, i realised that i had chosen wrongly. therefore, when i got an offer letter to further my studies in Form 6, although was offered to do science, i switched to arts stream without my parents knowledge. it turned out to be the best decision i’ve ever made because i passed STPM with flying colours.
November 28th, 2009 at 9:27 pm
My biggest dilemma in life happened quite recently. My grandma is now in the hospital and it’s during my SPM period. My mum said my grandma might be leaving the world soon and i really love my grandma but it’s now my SPM period and my Bio test is on the 30/11 which is coming really soon. I really wanted to go down to penang to visit my grandma before she leaves the world but i have to study for Biology. It’s such a big dilemma.
At the end my parents decided to go down to penang without me. I talked to my grandma over the phone. I hope she’ll still be alive after my spm in december >.<
November 28th, 2009 at 9:50 pm
My Biggest Dilemma:
Should I be a Bi*th or Angel to have friends?
I have been labeled to be the dominant as*Bit*h since high school. My intention is merely to help my friends to make decisions on what to eat, where to go & who to invite. It seems that my friends are bunch airhead who don’t know what to do and just let the time flies like nobody business.
If I switched to become an angel,aka FOLLOWER, things don’t get done. Then this ended up bunch of headless chickens walking around like zombies wandering what to do! Gosh! This is madness!When comes to team project, this nightmare will begins and never end.
It’s hard and difficult to work with people or even living with people. It seems that I might be ended up to be a lone ranger. Friends or colleagues find me very intimidating when comes this. It seems that in Malaysia,not many people wanted to be a leader.Instead, they just sit back and be bystanders. Wait and see la… Come on! Be Proactive, ok??
November 28th, 2009 at 10:39 pm
Biggest dilemma? at this very moment I’m arguing with my long term boyfriend. I’m torn between trusting him that he indeed is not cheating on me, or pursuing with the matter until he’s willing to admit he’s cheating.
I don’t know if he’s cheating but certain events have occurred where it makes the relationship between him and the “other girl” extremely suspicious.
While he claims that there’s nothing between, we’ve argued to the extreme that he insisted on taking time off, and out of spite i threw something at his car and actually dented it pretty badly. It was actually the wedges I was wearing that day. Gosh, I am surprised at my brutality.
I honestly feel bad for what I did, and I don’t want to lose him. Yet, I don’t know whether I should continue trusting him, because I really feel so insecure sometimes.
Things seem to be really.. blurry.
It is a decision I have to make.. and either way, my heart would break.
Oh and if I do get the tickets for the premiere, hopefully we’ll be talking again and I’ll be able to take him to the premiere cause he means the world to me.
November 28th, 2009 at 10:45 pm
My biggest dilemma would be whether should I continue to work for others or work for my family. I have been working for others ever since I graduated despite that my family have a business. While working for others have got its flexibility, it also meant that you are just someone who’s being delegated to do something. My family business on the other hand is something challenging but it will involved being in an old fashioned run company. As a son, I feel obligated to help out so I think this is one of my biggest dilemma right now.
November 29th, 2009 at 9:27 am
The biggest dilemma was and still remains to be sticking with my first love despite having gone through a spiraling world of lies, deceit, and substance abuse.
A recurring pattern of smiles and promises just before the storm rears its ugly head again.
When the world tells you to leave, do you leave?
Or do you stay and carry on–having faith, having hope; still loving and holding on to that first love?
November 29th, 2009 at 10:30 am
in my life, there are lots of dilemma. yes, dilemma give us headache and i dont know y i’m always in dilemma but to be and think positive, maybe Allah just wanna test me wether i know how to make a good decision or not.
my biggest dilemma so far are getting married or not.. its not because i dont love my boyfriend (now, he is my hubby)but when my parent know i have a boyfriend, they want me to get married immediately. its because i’m the eldest and in my family, this is the first time we going to handle wedding ceremony.. BUT i dont have money and really not prepared at that time.. hurmmm…
try to convinced myself and my boyfriend and also his family, and make sure people around me support me, i’m getting married on 17082009.. alhamdulillah, thanks to abg, ayah, mama n my bb sis, lin who really help me..
luv u all lots n luv nuffnang…
November 29th, 2009 at 10:41 am
my biggest dilemma is what should i do after my public exam. should i work or countinue studying. If i work my mum will nag,if i continue my study they have to pay a heavy sum lums of money for me to further my study in college,if i work,i could help them bare the burden abit by helping them pay a bit,but,i am afraid of my mum nags,when she nags it wont stop…):
help~and confuse~
November 29th, 2009 at 11:12 am
My biggest dilemma in my life is whether spend more time with friends, family or girlfriend. It is very difficult to find the balance to them. There is a phase known as “in house depend parent, go out depend friends”. Spend the time with friends are always given me happy. However when we spend more time with friends, the girlfriend will start not happy with that and she will ask is it ” friend more important than her” ? Definitely it is very difficult question to answer because the happiness we and friends is different compare we and girlfriend ! Girlfriend is the person we spend the time together in our whole half life. Therefore we should distribute more time for them. In conclusion, my biggest dilemma is always to spend more time with friends, family or girlfriend !!
November 29th, 2009 at 11:12 am
well, my biggest dilemma will be when i was still in primary school. as all kids are, i was quite adventures, so i invited my best friend to go cycling around the neighbourhood. after some time, i suggested that we cycle near a bully house although we have hear alot of rumours on him. my friend doesn’t want to but after much persuading i manage to get him to go there.
as we was going to pass trough the house the bully(forgotten what his name is as its a long time) came out from the house with his frens and stop us. the next thing we know they were chasing us and start hitting us with plastic swords. we manage to get away because they are on foot and we are on wheels. i could never forget the time when my back hurts like hell and i saw my friend crying in pain because of my own playfullness. i could not forgive my self eventhough all the families in the neighbourhood manage to “chase” the bully family away from the garden. the scars that are left is not at the back but in the heart as i have cause pain to others.
November 29th, 2009 at 11:55 am
your biggest dilemma in life so far ? i would say to not know whether i will or i will not pass my final exams in college. many people had edi put up so much hope onto me , im not a bright student but i dont know whether i truly liked the course i am in. its been a dilemma on whether i should tell my parents about it or whether i should not. i’ve been in the course for 2 years now , and yet with every passing day, the hatred towards the course increases. such a dilemma only requires a brief moment to choose and to make a decision, how could a poor student rushed up its choices at college within a couple of weeks to choose after spm and hope its the right choice for their future? dilemma like this only leads to youngsters ending their life.
November 29th, 2009 at 12:47 pm
i dont really remember any significant dilemmas i have encountered for the past 20 years but 2 days ago, i definitely had one of the worst decision making moment of the month! haha and its during a shopping trip! my boyfriend was super hungry and i needed to make a quick decision as to buy this pretty sexy dress or not. so my mind was like, contemplating buying it but it wasnt on discount!! (major factor!)(T.T) and the colour was too bright, but the cutting was so SO nice, and most importantly, it made me look slim (T.T) and me being so fickled-minded, needed more time to think and to weigh out the pros and cons, BUT the boyfriend hasnt eaten :( so being the good girlfriend that i am, i put down the dress reluctantly after carrying it like a baby in the shop for half and hour and went for lunch. dont think i regret not buying it (because it wasnt on a discount!!) but it was really really pretty and cute!
November 29th, 2009 at 12:47 pm
My biggest dilemma was choosing between passions.
I love photography and fashion, but both of them are considered expensive hobbies/interest (at least to me). I’ve always eyed on the lastest camera gears that only the rich could afford because my gears are always limiting me in some ways. I save all my money just to get them and I feel very happy of my purchases. However doing so has neglected my love for fashion at the same time.With my money spent on photography. I have no clothes to wear and I’ve been wearing the clothes that was given by my cousin!
It’s a dilemma when I have money and I could only choose one of my passions.
Having said that, I still have other dilemmas too but the above was the biggest! haha!
November 29th, 2009 at 1:56 pm
My biggest dilemma life so far is my life. Almost every day have to think my life, make decision to my life. Although life was full of challenges but we also have to face on. Only the people who face on the challenges will be grow up!
November 29th, 2009 at 2:04 pm
My biggest dilemma is when I have to choose between either to further studies in UK or come back to Malaysia and get a job.I thought i make a big mistake as I attend more than 5 interview but all unsuccessful.However,I learn from a mistake and manage to get a job from one of the commercial bank.I learn and after more than a year I manage to switch job and currently I am working with one of the best company in Malaysia.Furthermore,I can further my studies in a few years time if I manage to get a good KPI and all will be sponsor by my company.I think i make a good decision of returning to Malaysia.It not only I manage to get my dream job,i also get married,and now has a beautiful daughter.It was not an easy choice but I manage to make a right decision
November 29th, 2009 at 2:33 pm
The biggest dilemma in my life so far is whether I should have opened my own legal firm which I have done so for the past 10 years with limited success allowing me to own a nice house, nice car and go holiday once in a while OR should I have joined one of those big legal firm where I could have become a partner in a big firm now where I have to work nearly 15 hours a day and may not even enjoy any holiday at all. Come to think of it, I think that dilemma is still there but I still think I made the right choice
November 29th, 2009 at 2:54 pm
my biggest dilemma is weather to stay single or have a boyfriend..
I recently broke up with my ex earlier this year and remained single since then.. but there’s this guy who I’ve met online since June and we seem to like each other, a lot.. we’re friends now, but I don’t know weather to just stay as the best friends we are now or move to the next step.. I’m afraid that if our relationship didn’t work out, our friendship wouldn’t survive either..
so, this is the biggest dilemma I’m currently facing now!.. any tips?
November 29th, 2009 at 3:35 pm
Here’s my biggest dilemma: now if there’s such thing as a good and a bad, and that good always triumphs over the bad, how come it never generally is. There are always those on the side of good who would win but there’s always victorious feats performed and achieved by those who are bad. And some of them who are good at times would need to resolve to using bad methods for the good of their cause. I guess it is as some say “the sun shines on the good and the bad.” Now that’s my biggest dilemma. Still is actually.
November 29th, 2009 at 4:17 pm
The biggest dilemma whether I should tell my family after getting my law degree I don’t want to be a lawyer but a fashion writer. Oh, and not just that. I want to take a gap year to travel around the world before focusing on my ‘career’.
I think their biggest dilemma is whether they should disown me or not.
November 29th, 2009 at 4:53 pm
My biggest dilemma now is how to move on with my life. After coming out of a 3 years relationship – I know to some people, that isn’t very long. But for me, it was a really memorable and impactful one. Like they say “first cut is the deepest”. Now that I’m living life in singledom, I can’t help but feel a span of hope that he will come back to me. The reason for us to split is so that both of us can move on and live our own life. If I just stay put and wait for him, that’s practically defying the purpose of agreeing to the split. And for the past 3 years, I’ve been planning and foreseeing my life with him in mind. Now that he’s gone, I have so many more options in life. So many that, I’m lost. Friends and family are being very supportive and I’m trying my best to move on. But the fear of not knowing what I want to do next is downing on me. I’ve never felt so lost before. I’m known as a girl who knows what she wants. I hope this dilemma will end soon and I’ll find back my path in life.
November 29th, 2009 at 5:45 pm
Like everyone else, I too have a dilemma. One that holds me back on what I’m truly gifted to do and forces me to choose between what I want and what I need. What I want is to finish university fast, get a decent job as an engineer/consultant but that’ll lead to a boring life if I don’t do what I love. What I need is a good-paying job. But in the end, it’ll all bring me down to one thing, if you wanna succeed in life, you gotta do what’s logic and sometimes we gotta put aside what we love (for me, the creative stuff). Perhaps when I’ve finally achieved that, then only I can do the things I love, but what if the interest has already die off by that time? :(
November 29th, 2009 at 6:02 pm
My biggest dilemma is which one I have to choose between my best friend and my boyfriend. This was happened last 4years. I can’t seem to choose between them. Lastly, I choose my boyfriend and my best friend was hate me until now. She couldn’t accept my decision even though I feel very regret it because my boyfriend was left me last 2 years. I don’t know what I have to do to make my best friend be my best friend again. This is the biggest dilemma that I was regret until now..
November 29th, 2009 at 8:22 pm
My biggest dilemma? I have a few in the past but none have struck me this hard. I’m actually having this now.
I’ve recently graduated wif an engineering degree and am employed by a decent engineering company. Engineering has been my passion all my life, I felt I’m borned to be an engineer. I want to be a successfull engineer. However, the fact that the prospect of engineering in Malaysia is telling me not to go through this path; it doesn’t pay good enough.
I heard that banks pay well. After all, the growth of all corporation is based on nothing but profits. Working in banks not only meant that I get paid more, but the knowledge I gained is useful for my future growth.
But business and finanace are not my passion. Not like I mind doing it, but will I be happy with the job in the future? Will I enjoy my job? Am I good enough to compete with others who has far better knowledge in business and finance? After all, engineering comes naturally to me so wouldn’t it be better if I hone my skill and knowledge further in it?
I felt that this decision is critical at this point of my life. I don’t want to waste time that would retard my growth towards my dreams.
November 29th, 2009 at 9:13 pm
The biggest dilemma of my life is dun know what i shud write for this comment. sincerely, i really headache for this and keep asking my bf what shud i write for it. it doesnt mean that i never face any dilemma before just i dont want to remember it. As what hv happened in the past is passed already, no matter how hard or difficult to make a decision at the time, it already passed, there is no reason for me to remember it. we shud look for future instead of the past.Hehe//
November 29th, 2009 at 9:42 pm
The biggest dilemma that I’ve had staring at me in the face, was having to decide… of joining the ranks of a military officer or taking a shot at the private sector.
The armed forces would mean instant financial independence and security, and the private sector would mean a taking a chance. Then comes you’re teenage rebellious/pro-freedom thoughts, which suggests you to choose the one which guarantees that you’re no longer under the control of others (to be exact, parents).
Time was a constraint, as offers don’t last forever, they lapse within a reasonable period of time. I took a chance, and got what I needed. :)
November 29th, 2009 at 10:06 pm
Being a girl chased by strangers and ended up in a dead end with no where to hide, my biggest dilemma was whether to get caught by them or climb into the shyt hole at the bottom with the lid. It’s either my life or my hygiene. I chose my life. =S
November 29th, 2009 at 10:10 pm
The biggest dilemma I’ve faced so far was to decide between what was more important: What the girl I love wants in life and what I want in life. She wants freedon to travel all over the world while I do not have the money and means to be able to do that with her. WHat I would liek to do is settle down with her and just wake up to seeing her everyday.
In the end, I decided that what she wants is more important than what I want because ultimately, when she is happy, I’m happy.
November 29th, 2009 at 11:36 pm
My biggest dilemma in my life is not been able to express my love to someone I have secretly admired during my secondary school years. I had most of my chances there and I did not tell her the truth face to face. Until now I still keep stalking at her through her Facebook account.
Actually I did managed to tell her about my feelings but that time it was too late because she has committed in her studies and she actually told me that I had my chances before but I was too shy to tell her… But each day I look at her photos in her Facebook, I know that she’s happy and that makes me happy as well. :)
November 29th, 2009 at 11:53 pm
The biggest dilemma I’m facing right now is whether to buy a DLSR camera or keep the money for life expenses with my PTPTN loan. If I’m keep the money, my hands would feel itchy to spend it on DSLR because I’m so desperated!!! However, if I have bought a DSLR, I might encountering the problem of insufficient money in life surviving. Oh gosh, that’s really tough decision!
November 30th, 2009 at 12:24 am
The biggest dilemma I’ve faced so far was to decide whether or not to burn my cheating ex boyfriend’s car up. I would have if it wasn’t illegal lol. I still dream of it sometimes though… lol. This must sound an awful lot scary and creepy. But nahh I’m actually a pretty happy person in general :D
November 30th, 2009 at 12:54 am
My biggest dilemma is…
choose to continue our relationship OR choose to respect his decision,end up the relationship.
“Whats the problem if we love each other but without money?”
I was thought that time.
Now only I realise,
Love can be in any condition.
However,choose to be partner is a situation that we need to consider a lot,
including study,family,money,career.
I love him but how can we maintain a relationship without money?
Thats reality.
Yea.
Choosing not to love is a way we love.
November 30th, 2009 at 2:28 am
My biggest dilemma in life I have experience so far is whether to keep my dog or to let go ! Since young I have asthma and yet I love dogs so much that every time I saw a dog walking passby me I cant resist but to go near them and intend to touch them. And my parents will come and stop me on time.
Though today although my asthma has gradually recover my parents still afraid that I will have asthma attack anytime. And 2 months ago I saw this poor injured door in front of my house, I immediately bring him in, put medicine on his foot, give him food and drink and even bath him when my parents not at home. However few hours, I have to let him go as my parents going be home. And till today the dog still come around at my house and wait for me, and my parents feel weird why there is a dog waiting outside, so secretly everyday I feed the dog. And the dog looks so pretty and cute that I wanted to keep him. My biggest is how am I going to tell my parents and make sure that they say YES YES YES!! Is my dream to have a dog , and I know it will be my biggest regret if I cannot own my own dog..because they have this dolly eyes that look with you with feeling !!!
November 30th, 2009 at 2:58 am
The biggest dilemma I’ve faced so far was to decide what course I’m should take after spm 3 years ago. In the end, i chose engineering over creative design.
I have come this far and i have no regrets at all to be in engineering field even though i have interest in designing. so far it’s all good to me. i’m happy to be where i am now.
November 30th, 2009 at 3:31 am
I’m in a dilemma even now, as you guys should know that Nuffnang’s founder Timothy has won the JCI Creative Young Entrepreneur Award 2009 not too long ago, and my girlfriend is taking a degree in Media Innovation and Entrepreneurship, and she will be having her internship next trimester (Jan), she wants to join Nuffnang during this period, and has sent a letter to Nuffnang but until now, still has no reply.
The dilemma, should I e-mail Timothy and inquire him directly and shout out how big a fan are the two of us and yet how much I hate him for doing all those nice things to his “Princess”, now my “Elmo” has high expectation for her surprises. Haihz.
Back to topic, if she is accepted, I have to send & pick her to & from office everyday, stuck in traffic jam while my heart is at the basketball court which my body is unable to attend. But if she gets rejected, she will lose that little bit of hope that Nuffnang has not reply her.
So now I still don’t know what to do. Oh god (Nuffnang/Tim) save me. Thanks for reading my rants
November 30th, 2009 at 8:58 am
is it bombastic like titanic?
hope the plot of this story same as i
watch its preview..
November 30th, 2009 at 10:18 am
my biggest delima is when the time for me to make a decision in life that put’s me in between choosing my family and my love.
it hasn’t happened yet, but i know it’ll happen one day,sooner or later.
November 30th, 2009 at 11:42 am
My biggest dilemma is to choose whether to give up my full time job as a Marketer or to study a Patisserie Course. I cannot do both. And there are so many things that I need to think of before I decide to switch or stay..
As now might not be the best time to give up my full-time job as many people are having hard time getting one…
November 30th, 2009 at 11:53 am
My biggest dilemma is either wanna share my story or not to share with you guys.After a while thinking, I decided not to reveal my story here but in my lovely blog.So guys..let’s check it out my blog for more dilemma in reality and fantasy world. That’s The Avatar means for…live in between reality and fantasy…what else we can do??
November 30th, 2009 at 11:54 am
My biggest dilemma is either wanna share my story or not to share with you guys.After a while thinking, I decided not to reveal my story here but in my lovely blog.So guys..let’s check it out my blog for more dilemma in reality and fantasy world. That’s The Avatar means for…live in between reality and fantasy…what else we can do?? You are the only one to decide what you want!!Cheers.. ;)
November 30th, 2009 at 12:29 pm
my biggest dilemma in my life is when to make a decision. it is really hard for me and i believe to everyone too.
when i have to make a decision i will ask my mother first. then i will have two choices. my mum decision or my own decision. even thought the problem is about my future i will ask my mother decision too. ussually my mother decision will always opposite to my own decision.
i always be in dilemma to choose the solution for my own problem.
but i believe that mother always care about their child. they always want the best for their child.
so i choose too listen to my mother because i will feel no regret at all. she always do the best for me.
November 30th, 2009 at 1:08 pm
My biggest dilemma so far is about my boyfriend’s parents. They are to be considered a wealthy family, while I’m just average. His dad doesn’t seems to like to talk to me. The problem now is me and my boyfriend had decided to get engage next year and I’m so worried that his parents do not acknowledge me. I’m trying to be a better one and tried to get along well with his parents, but it seems fruitless..
November 30th, 2009 at 1:12 pm
My biggest dilemma in life so far now is Organic Chemistry!
My teacher say Organic Chemistry is just like cooking but the application of the reaction of haloalkanes, aromatic hydrocarbons and carboxylic acid is hardly like cooking Tom Yam Chicken if you ask me.
But then again, I don’t cook. xp
November 30th, 2009 at 2:23 pm
The biggest dilemma in my life is to face the facts! I believe many people are very difficult to face the facts! Because the facts are often very cruel! But now, everything passed! I will live better, because i have Nuffnang! =D
November 30th, 2009 at 3:13 pm
My biggest dilemma is to choose between study and work.
I’ve graduated with a bachelor’s degree in April 2009.
I was offered several jobs towards the end of my graduation but I turned down all of them because I felt so tired after finishing 5 years in matriculation and university, and I just wanted to rest at home before furthering study.
Yes, I still wanted to study because I didn’t see myself as a working person.
In July this year, I started my master’s degree for full-time basis and I didn’t get any job for myself.
After few months, siblings have been complaining of my study mission because for them, I am just wasting my parents’ money for only studying and not working.
But the truth is I’ve been using my bank money for my masters study since my parents have supported my first degree study.
Life as a masters student is very hard and hectic as well and I can’t imagine myself working while I have many assignments to be completed.
My choice has somewhat separated me from other family members.
I’m now in search of jobs because if I pass this semester with flying colours, I’ll only have 2 more subjects next semester before start writing my dissertation.
This is my biggest dilemma since I hate working while studying but perhaps this is the sacrifice that I have to make.
*sigh*
November 30th, 2009 at 4:26 pm
My biggest dilemma in life so far is when my ex-bf came back for me (we broke up because he was going oversea for further study) but I’m already with my current bf for 2 years. It’s hard to choose between them because they are both great guys to me. In the end, I chose my current bf because what is past is past.
November 30th, 2009 at 4:34 pm
dilemmas are oh-so-very-frequent in our lives i’m sure, in studies, whether or not to pursue my interest in the creative area, or into a field where it’s all figures and theories, but could give a promising future.
in relationships, should i pursue him though we know it’s gonna be a difficult road ahead, but a road we could survive with the love we have.
or in nuffnang competitions, on whether or not to skip classes for their outings, or to tell the truth or create stories as answers for their competitions just to go watch the damn movie they’re giving out, or to be real mad and post crazy photos just to win invitations from nuffnang over our “mau jaga muka” thing.
But this ain’t no dilemma already! I want those tickets!!! :D nuffnang please?
November 30th, 2009 at 5:11 pm
The biggest dilemma now is whether to dive head on into the erratic stock market to maximize the opportunity and minimize the risk, or stash my hard earned extra cash in the cache and wait for the next clear boom time to come.
Both ways will still ache my heart, if it turns out to be the opposite of what I am planning for. Anyway, keep on standing on the dilemma ground will do no good. Better to move head on and ache the heart for things not turning to what I wish for, than to stand still and ache the heart for things that I wish I should have done.
November 30th, 2009 at 5:20 pm
my biggest dilemma is..
I dont know what to type in this comment board…
i cant choose which one..And the result was im typing all this sentence to participate..So i hope my dilemma now can really touch your heart…DUhhhhhhh~
November 30th, 2009 at 5:55 pm
My biggest dilemma in life is right now. I’ve just lost my job because apparently the company is not doing well and will be closed down. At recent economy state, how am I gonna get a new job and its the end the year. How? How? What am I gonna do?
November 30th, 2009 at 6:25 pm
My biggest dilemma at the moment is which city will be the place i want to place my roots into its ground. Penang is hometown with moderate life style or enter the world with non-stop moving concrete jungle, KL City.
November 30th, 2009 at 6:30 pm
My biggest dillema is, I guess to stay in this country or to move away.
One side is my family and friends.
One side is my freedom.
It pains me a bit to leave my family and all my friends here and go pursue whatever I want to.
But it is also a problem to me because there are many issues that makes me wanna leave this country.
This may not be a very big issue to some people, but I guess =) It is, to me ^^
November 30th, 2009 at 7:15 pm
I’m from Kedah and my boyfriend is in KL.I’ve been dating with my boyfriend for 2 years plus..because of him,I chose to stay in KL and work here after my graduation..I miss home everyday,miss my parents,miss my form 1 little bro,and miss everything in my hometown..me and my boyfriend both understand that distance is a big obstacle for our relationship,that’s why i didn’t choose to go back my hometown..this is my biggest dilemma in my life right now..I cry every night because of homesick,but i cannot leave my boyfriend in KL and go back hometown..I really don’t know what to do..I want to stay with my parents,and i also want to stay with my boyfriend at the same time..what should i do?
November 30th, 2009 at 9:50 pm
My biggest dilemma in life so far… erm… what else??? of course is how to make her go for a Nuffnang Premiere Screening with me!!!! haha, just joke… That only located as second dilemma for me…
What came first and art as the biggest dilemma in my life was I can’t show to my mum, I as a Master graduate, get marry and have kid for her and so much more as she pass away… and all this was her hope and will be her hope to me forever…
November 30th, 2009 at 9:56 pm
Dilemma 1: A boxer, or a briefs? Answer: A boxer.
Dilemma 2: Put left, or put right?
REAL DILEMMA: Put left is comfortable but will bengkok left too much, put right will makes me always check if it looks normal.
November 30th, 2009 at 10:18 pm
My greatest dilemma that i ever encountered was that i have to choose whether to go to a rural area to work or stay jobless at kl. Being born in the city, i have always dreamt of the perfect city life; filled with fun and challenge of the executive world. Never once i thought that i will be placed in a small town, working in a place with harsh environment. This is far from what i had imagined! There’s no air-cond or tea lady serving me.Instead, I’m surrounded with furnaces that reaches the temperature of 1000deg Celcius everyday!
Hopefully one day, an angel will come rescue me from this place. =)
November 30th, 2009 at 11:51 pm
my biggest dilemma that i face everyday is the biggest ever
but second to life and death
many people my age face this dilemma…..
its a pandemic on a global scale….
my biggest dilemma is….
*jeng jeng jeng*
whether to go to class in the morning or to have a few more hours of sleep :)
December 1st, 2009 at 12:41 am
My biggest dilemma is whether to cut my waist-length hair that I’ve kept for 4 years just for a 3-months internship..In the end, i cut it without hesitation..
December 1st, 2009 at 1:55 am
My biggest dilemma is that when a fabulous pranking idea shot through me, when all things are set and my big brain start kicking out everything that block my way, I found that the particular target that I thought to prank on is the son of my new school headmaster… I having headache on whether to keep on the plan with the risk on getting detention … or quickly cancel eveything even though that headmaster boy is really annoying and his attendance make the class into a zoo.
We dislike him, but we dislike trouble too. And by giving him a lesson we will get ourself into trouble… What to do?
December 1st, 2009 at 3:40 am
My biggest dilemma is falling in love with a guy who’s in love with my friend. Actually they love each other. I can’t tell him i love him but it hurt to see them together. Anyway, i chose to let go and bless them. Friendship comes first anytime. I don’t wanna lose any one of them. And it’s proven to be the right choice! They were together, then broke up later. Though so, we’re still in very good terms, all 3 of us. Friendship forever. :)
December 1st, 2009 at 3:48 am
my dilemma happens every lunch time….dunno what to eat! – western or chinese? expensive or cheap?
spicy or original? haihhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!
December 1st, 2009 at 4:06 pm
my biggest dilemma is to finish my study as soon as possible or just leave it just like that..no more study….sometimes its feel easy to give up everything but everyday i remind myself to be grateful and no to waste my time study for many many years…
December 1st, 2009 at 4:13 pm
My biggest dilemma in life is whether to pursue my dream of becoming a professional footballer or to become a fulltime blogger.
If I choose the former, I will be flying to Barcelona and train with probably the best team in the world. The most important is of course to play beautiful football game with Messi and Co. It would be great if I am 10 years younger. Then I may have a better chance to join its football acedemy.
If I choose the latter, I may get a chance to watch Avatar!(*grin) Hopefully I will get the tickets. That probably will shed some lights into my decision. :)
December 1st, 2009 at 5:56 pm
My biggest dilemma that i can recall was that i was suppose to travel back from my hometown from Pahang back to KL because the following day i have final exam but i did contemplate on coming back on the next day instead and rush for my final exam which is in the afternoon.
I was following my friend back to KL on that day, but i were to travel the next day i would have taken the bus instead. So i decided to follow my friend instead and to come back to KL, one day earlier.
The next day i found out that the bus that i suppose to travel was involved in an accident and i was shocked. If i were to travel the next day instead, i wouldn’t be alive today.
December 1st, 2009 at 7:48 pm
My biggest dilemma happened since last few months.
i got oppurtunity to working in the field that I love most but the location is too far from my home force me to choose between to stay home to take care of my ill mom by sacrificing that golden opportunity or I left my ill mom for my dream job.
December 1st, 2009 at 8:36 pm
my dilemma..wah..like a song lah..dilemma…
ok my dilemma is am i already pass my final or not??
December 1st, 2009 at 9:05 pm
The biggest dilemma in everyone’s life would always to be honest when the truth is too bitter to be swallowed, make you look awful, affect your life or your dignity. The recent one that I’ve faced was when I scratched my housemate’s Honda Civic. I was supposed to park it nicely to the left of our frontyard so the other motorcycles can goes out and in with ease. That’s when I was tooo left and scratched the front bumper.
He didn’t notice at all. I even asked my fellow colleagues what if they are my housemate. Should I tell him or should I not. I might need to pay for a whole bumper repaint. The Honda is his 2nd wife. He loves his car so much. After I asked around 10 friends of mine. I decided to tell him.
I called him when he was at the office. He was shocked. Later at home the first thing he said when I stepped into my house was “pay aaaaaa!!!”. But he didn’t mean it. I handed him some notes but he refused to accept it. It’s hard to tell the truth…but sometimes, it worths the effort
December 1st, 2009 at 9:24 pm
my biggest dilemma in life so far is actually what i’m facing now: to continue striving for an online business that i share with dormant family members who contributes little and expect too much of returns, or to abandon it and start a new business that i can have full control off?
i love my family along with their flaws, but it is tiresome when you can overlook little financial details when the rest of them can’t.
and i’m really looking forward to have a little business of my own that i am solely held responsible for, as i need the money to pay off my student loans! :D
hmmm, come to think of it, i might have just solved my dilemma just by expressing it here!
indirectly, thank you nuffnang!
i will thanks you personally again and directly if i get tickets to the movie!
*thick skin wtf*
December 1st, 2009 at 9:42 pm
I was a student who got very good result in UPSR & SPM…
But now… I don’t think I can get good result in my A level. Because I didn’t study hard enough as I had no heart to study. My thought is just want to earn more money. Because I’m from a poor family!
You know, because I’m poor, I have no choice to choose what I like to study. I know I can get scholarship but my parents always say what if I didnt get scholarship? I have to stop my study halfway then. I was a science stream student in form 4 & form5. But then my parents say study Accounting can earn a lot of money. I don’t like Accounting at all. So I refuse to take Accounting in diploma. As I was thinking to study Law, so I change to A level-Art. That’s mean take accounting, economics, maths & business studies subjects. After my A level, they ask me what do I want to study then. But I don’t know yet. I just want to wait for the result 1st. They said want me to study Accounting course so keep forcing me to study that course. Then I told them I have bad result in Accouting so I can’t study Accounting. Then my mom & sister ask me not to go for further study as it would be wasting my time & parents’ money. They want me to find a full time job. I never think to work for full time! I’m just 19! I really hate to hear it when they think that I’m wasting their money! How could they say like that? Isn’t that pay for children to continue their study & give pocket money for children are parents’ responsibility? I got scholarship for my course & they just have to pay for my hostel fees & pocket money. My pocket money is the lowest compare to my friends. I didn’t ask for extra money from them. I work for part time so that I’m still able to survive!
It is my biggest dilemma in my life… Am I really have to find a full time job now? or should I earn money for myself to continue my study? I really don’t know which option should I choose…
December 2nd, 2009 at 2:01 am
My biggest dilemma is…when my hubby got a job in Malacca…our hometown.
We have been staying in Shah Alam for 5 years…our neighbors here are awesome. I love our house that we rented here eventhough it is small. My daughter & eldest son is working in Shah Alam too.
Now…i must make the decision whether to stay in Shah Alam with my kids…(2 of them are still schooling) or….to follow my hubby back to Malacca and stay with my in laws…leaving my working daughter & son staying here.
I can’t imagine staying again with my in laws coz …i had stayed more than 20 years with them and throughout the years…I faced an suffered a lot of problems with them. Now…I’m happy with my own family in my own house doing our own things that we love to do.
December 2nd, 2009 at 10:45 am
looooong list of dilemma u got here..
but my dilemma not as big as others, but it is dilemma though..
it is happen when last semester is started. i need to choose, let me put it in a point form.
-stay with my friends and enjoy throughout the semester and need to pay for the house rent.
-stay with my classmates and can concentrate on my study at the hostel.
obviously, the right decision is there but you know what, i chose to stay with my friends and play hard. All the assignments and works, i’ve done it last minutes, copy from my classmates, and all the test that i’ve gone through got lower than my classmates. And for the final exam, i sucks. The exams results make me crazy. In the end, it’s all me, taking the wrong decision in the first place.
it’s me, just picking up the pieces of life.
December 2nd, 2009 at 11:04 am
cheh, i thought it’s gone, then i wrote it again. T_____T
December 2nd, 2009 at 11:42 am
my biggest dilemma in life so far is to decide whether to choose nuffnang or advertlets as an advertising medium in my blog.. it was a hard decision though as i heard good things about them.. but then, after a month trial with advertlets and nuffnang, i found out that, nuffnang is the best!
December 2nd, 2009 at 2:41 pm
My biggest dilemma is to join this contest or not. I am studying in Melaka, so I only come back to my hometown-KL on my semester break. I don’t really have much chance to join Nuffnang event, not to mention screening. However, I am working part time in this holiday too. If I join this contest, then I got to duty on that night too (my duty time is very volatile), then how I am suppose to choose? I mean I want to watch that movie (got 3D some more) but if I got the ticket and duty same time, which should I choose? Oh… you are giving me an headache.
December 2nd, 2009 at 2:53 pm
To have been born an Occipital Craniopagus (a complex conjoined twins).
Joined by a portion of the skull, with distinctly separate necks and bodies.
Separation was very risky since we shared parts of the brain, as well as blood circulation.
Only one life could be spared. The one who survived today must have been a miracle!
And she hopes that her genetic curse or dilemma won’t fall upon her own offspring someday during conception.
December 2nd, 2009 at 3:01 pm
My biggest dilemma in life so far is to decide whether or not to grow my business or quit it. I quit my job 2 years ago to start my business and so far, it’s doing ok. The problem is, it’s not doing well enough for me to start a family. at the same time, I’ve come to really enjoy the flexibility the business provides and the freedom is gives me to pursue the things that i love. If i quit the business, i would feel guilty because it would feel like i’m giving up too easily and all the effort put into it would’ve been wasted. but if i don’t quit the business, then i’ll have to continue to put aside starting a family and continue to pump in more effort and money without knowing when it will finally bear enough fruit, and that also makes me feel guilty on the part of my responsibility as a husband.
2 tickets to the avatar movie premiere won’t solve the dilemma, but it’ll sure as heck help me get my mind off it! =)
December 2nd, 2009 at 4:16 pm
My biggest dilemma are to make the right decision to choose the right jobs for better future. Some company offer high salary and some offer great chance for future. But all have positive and negative site. Until now i try to follow the flow until i find my own stepladder to my shinning future. Hopefully i will find the right direction and make my own way to the peaks of success.
December 2nd, 2009 at 5:12 pm
I am a close friend to a couple. 2 years ago, the girl come to talk with me crying saying she cheated on her boyfriend. Since that day, every time the girl are upset/emo about what she have done she come to me, she even told me that is not the 1st time O_O.
2 years has gone by and i still thinking should i tell the boyfriend as i don’t feel fair for the guy.
Recent dilemma that still stuck with me and i still remember so far.
December 2nd, 2009 at 5:31 pm
My biggest dilemma is to choose between food and diet plan.
You want that super smooth and creamy cheesecake? or you want to fit into that pair of skinny jeans?
Oh what about that super juicy unagi? Hmm.. don’t forget about your bodyhugging dress honey…
It doesn’t sound big but it happens all the time.
Guess I’m not alone out there.
December 2nd, 2009 at 7:34 pm
my biggest dilemma happened not too long ago..
I was hitting on this girl I know..
We were flirting and calling each other names.
Everything was going seemingly to the right end,
except for the part where she told me she needed more space as she already have someone in her heart.
I was taken aback nevertheless, I gave her what she wanted and backed off.
After a few days, she started flirting with me again..
randomly sms-ing me at night and getting all physical whenever we meet..
it’s as though we didn’t have that conversation all all!
I’m really confuse now..
Should I back away for good or should I dive in and try to change her heart?
Till now, I’ve yet to answer that question myself..
Anyway, if I were to win those tix, I think I’ll face another dilemma..
“Should I bring her along?” X_X
December 2nd, 2009 at 8:41 pm
My biggest dilemma so far in my life is choices between freedom of speech with friends or my own safety and this happened during my NS time. I was selected for the 2nd batch of NS and my camp was in Sibu, Sarawak. It was quite fun because I made new friends there, laughed together and share things together. This peaceful yet happy moment dint last long. I made friends with the girls in my camp ( who dint?lol and we always chatted whenever we met. My nightmare began after that. I was assaulted when I was resting in the dorm and they realized tat this wont worked, they uses propaganda to enrage the local people to go against me. I was afraid I will be beaten and so I decided to stop talking to them. They forced me to go against my own free wills by choosing between the freedom of speech with friends or my own safety indirectly by all the actions they did.I was staying in an unfamiliar place whereby I have no1 to protect me .To protect myself, I chose the latter options. It was very painful for me to made this choice. I mean who are they to stop me from talking with friends?I do not understand their action at all because it is normal to say hi and talk to friends. Everyday I was afraid because I truly did not know their identity, I became more alert and more tension whenever I was alone and I was suffering for almost a month thanks to them.
My nightmare ended when I left the camp for my form 6 study and I have no more chances to talk to my friends anymore because it will be very hard for us to meet again. Until now, I am still struggling for the choices during that time : freedom to talk to them or my own safety? Why cant I choose both? This has become my dilemma ever since that time.
December 2nd, 2009 at 8:51 pm
The biggest dilemma in my life was to choose between the career which I love, or the career which has a prospect. I was torn between being a performer, acting on stage shows, and perhaps get spotted by a talent company and make it big into the entertainment world (very far-fetched, but a possibility), and studying a stable degree course, and be a mediocre nobody, but have a more secure future.
Sometimes I feel cursed with the ability to study, because if not for that, I wouldn’t have a choice and I’ll be doing what I like right now. But in the end, I choose the safer pathway, to please my parents, and also to have the comfort that I at least can feed my family when I’m older.
I won’t say I regret my choice, but there is always the pounding “what if” at the back of my mind all the time.
December 3rd, 2009 at 12:55 am
My biggest dilemma is when I broke up with my ex-girlfriend. We started dating few months before we finish our degree course in college few years back. That time we still studying, so we didn’t think much about our career… what job we going to do … All we thought that time was to finish the course with good results.
Our problem starts when we go into the job market. The first few months was alright until one point we started arguing on my job. I’m a strong believer in religion. Since that time I still young, I thought of contribute something to the community before I start work. So that time I decided to work in a temple for charity.
Now here the problem starts… my ex-girlfriend always arguing with me about my job. Said that this job no much future and so on…. I got my principles and plan for my career but she seem can’t understand what I was trying to do. During this time, my ex-girlfriend keep on saying want to break up with me.
That time I have to choose either to continue what I want to do or give in to my ex-girlfriend. I very much want to continue to be with her but the condition became worse until one point we agreed to give ourselves our own time to think about what we want. End up we broke up. It was a very heart-broken moments for us and I’m not sure whether we made the right decision or not. But that time there is no turning back for us already. I just have to bear with the sadness and go on with my life.
December 3rd, 2009 at 12:03 pm
My biggest dilemma is to either stick to my original Top 5 Treat List plan (from Dell contest) and spend unknown amount of man hours at growing my fortune to make it possible, or to simplify it to become my Top 5 Practical Treat List plan that I can achieve within a year or two. It is really a choice to choose between going slowly but surely at smaller pace, or doing things one at a time at rapid pace.
Choice number one would be make the end result much sweeter, but choice number two may give me chance to do more.
So, which one shall I choose now?
December 3rd, 2009 at 1:08 pm
Everyone always have dilemma, i have one too for now. I am working as an IT manager in a software house for 5 years. Last year there are some UK company bought over our company shares, so i can see a lot of foreigners hanging around in my company. 3 months from their joining i decide to leave the company to singapore, because i think i do not have a future compare to those foreigners working in the same office. My original boss didn;t ask me to stay, so i think i worth nothing to the company anymore. But later on the upper manager from UK side come down and ask me to stay, and offer me some great bonus instead. I have decided to stay thinking i will have more future growth staying with UK company. Here comes the dilemma, the UK company decide to give up our department and setup a new software department in singapore, i have been invite by them to join their new company. But there are 2 to worried about
1) To join will great payout and great benefits, because is UK company, setup using pounds of course will give me great salary in singapore dollar. But the new department setup all with UK peoples, will i finally being kick because cannot perform like those UK experts, and of course worst to worst, they kick me out because i am not english.
2) To stay with old company, my salary shall able to maintain, but continue to being ice by my boss because i have decided to take advantage from UK side, my boss sure don’t like this kind of action, he is a traditional business man, require full loyalty and not willing to pay more.
i am still in this dilemma cause the action will be taking only in next year after january. I am worried and scared, scared i have take the wrong decision.
December 3rd, 2009 at 8:11 pm
The biggest dilemma in my life so far is to choose between my parents. My parents has divorce and I still remember few years back they ask me who I’ll choose to live with. I have no idea how to answer both of them and I choose my brother instead. If living with both of them make either one of them misery might as well I don’t want to choose any of them. It’s hurt and dilemma when I have to choose but I guess that is live.
December 3rd, 2009 at 9:26 pm
I am not sure wheather this dilemma is consider a dilemma for u guys…
But it is sure a choice that will decide my college life for the rest of my life…
The options for me is
-Be like your friends, play game like no others, rush your homework at the fourteenth hour, burn the midnight oil when exam is near, waste your money, break the promise i made…
-Be what you are, have a good time management, finish off homework before playing anything, keep my promise, live healthy…
Well, it will be easy to chose, if it were not me. But for myself, eventhough i had chosen the second option, I still need to keep myself unaffected by my friends, especially my housemates and roomates. Well, friends do play an important role in ourlife, if you got a good friend, the you are mostly to be a good person. However, if you had make friends with negative personality and negatively minded people, then only three things will happen to you.
1.You will be affected and influenced by the negative personality of the person.
2.You will be affected but have a mixed personality with your own.
3.You will learn how to evade from their negative characteristic and be yourself.
Eventhough i had chosen option 2, i have to keep on reminding myself that i am myself, so don’t get influenced. However, part of my personality had been affected, and now i am concreting my will to neglect their influence on me. To do this without spoiling our relationship, i had to be silenced when they speak on some topics, like gaming and etc. The thing that i can do is help them off when they seek for assistance in academy. Although i need to wear a mask when i am with them, but it is a true thing that I have had a happy time with them. If I had chosen the first option, for sure i am living happy now, because i can do anything i like.However, my future will be a darkness.
I am just hoping that my decision will not lead me to an end of the road……
December 3rd, 2009 at 10:33 pm
The biggest dilemma now is for me to choose between staying up late, or sleep early now and wake up early tomorrow to complete my assignment. We always face with this crossroad to choose between health and wealth, and almost all the time we take things for granted and place wealth over health.
December 4th, 2009 at 2:40 am
So far, the biggest dilemma in my life happened last few month.
Let’s name my friend A. Me and A were very best friend last year, she have a boyfriend name B. B was my friend, too. They coupled for 6 months. Unfortunately, their relationship were not that good as other people expected, they had a lot arguments. I’ve always advise both of them, hoping and praying hard that they won’t give up on this relationship so easily because they had go through so many ups and downs together, I supposed.
So, B have a friend, name C. B introduce C to A, A introduce C to me. C and all of us were really great friend. A and C chat a lot and they became very very close friend. A felt more happy and relaxing while chatting with C compare to B. So, B was jealous of both of them and they started to argue again.
After all the uncountable arguments between A and B, A made a decision to break up with B because she really can’t stand it anymore. Hmmm, maybe break down will suits her more. Every time, I can see through that she’s having a hard time when they argue. Well, B can’t really accept the fact though but he still love A and he’s trying his best to change himself.
A just wouldn’t believe that he will change since he’s so flirty. Unfortunately, A’s feeling towards B slowly decrease, lesser and lesser day by day. A and B dint really talk at that moment, but in the other hand, A and C getting closer and closer. Then, A and C slowly fall for each other. They coupled secretly after A and B broke up for 2 or 3 weeks. A told me this secret and she warned me not to tell anyone especially B. She wants me to keep this secret because she don’t want to hurt B and I accepted.
Its hard for me to keep this secret because all of them were my very close friend that time. Till one day, B and his best friend started to suspect both of them. B begged me to tell him the truth but I rejected for many times. Hence, he dint give up for asking me and I felt really really guilty and felt really sorry to him.
So here’s the point, dilemma ! It took me very long to make decision whether should I continue keep this secret or not. But I’ve make up my mind after so long, I choose to tell him even though I know I’ll betray A because its very unfair if I dint tell B, right ? He have the right to know even though it will hurt him. B and C had arguments but C kept deny that both of them were together. C asked me and of course, I admitted that I’m the one who told B. C texted A after that, he told her everything and she’s super pissed off, who doesn’t right ? Sigh.
She texted me and wrote a lot harsh word inside :( I felt very helpless, sad, frustrated, guilty and so. I really can’t describe my feeling. I cried as loud as I can because she was the first best friend I’ve lost in my life. I’m not happy at all everyday, I even cried every night before I sleep. Since A and I were studying at the same school, I don’t even know how to face her. She stared at me so fiercely when she saw me in school. I even cried in school, so embarrassing.
Until last 3 or 4 months, A talked to me in school out of no where. I get so frightened, as in like ohmygod. She even talked to me in msn on that night. I felt so much relieved after A told me she forgave me. I asked her why, she said there’s no point of getting angry over all these small matter. I smiled, when I read that sentence.
So from that day, we started to talk like last time. Sakainess, gay, lame and so on :) Unfortunately, we are no longer best friend like last time anymore but we’re still friend. I miss those time, seriously. She invited me to her house for so many times but I don’t have the guts to go. So, I find a lot excuses to push it away. Yes, dumb I know :(
I regretted to make that decision on that day, I regretted to betray A, my best friend, I regretted to tell B the truth, haih. If there’s a time machine for me, how good isn’t ? At least I’ll just felt sorry to B but not lost a best friend. Well, I guess this is the longest comment among all of it. Opps, really sorry. Anyway, I would like to thanks Nuffnang for giving me this chance to release my pain here. Not all of course, a little only :D
So, everyone, please make up your mind before you make a decision. It will affect you and hit you down if you choose the wrong decision. Its up to you to choose the wrong or the right decision, I’ve share my experience already :)
December 4th, 2009 at 10:26 am
My biggest dilemma is to choose whether to stay at my own house or my future in law house when I get married.
If I wanna stay at my house I have to buy now and I’m still on budget for my future marriage.
If I stay with my future in law, i think it will burden them instead of I’m not use to it.
This two solutions makes me think over and over again.There goes my dilemma.
Like dilemma song ” No matter what I do, All I think about is you”
you stand for dilemma..Haha..
December 4th, 2009 at 5:51 pm
I was Forced to Choose to Kill my Dog or Let it continue Live and suffer till it dies. It was my most unforgettable dilemma n also decision. My decision shall remain mysterious.
December 4th, 2009 at 6:26 pm
My biggest dilemma right now is to choose which one of my dilemmas is the greatest.
But if I absolutely have to choose one…
Choice 1 : Continue to put faith in my business and hope that it will survive the current financial storm.
Choice 2 : Get a job.
Perseverance is key to success. But it’s doesn’t feed the hungry.
December 4th, 2009 at 8:57 pm
My dilemma in my life so far is when my car damage,now i need to choose either to get money to repair it or just sell if off.Itis too hard to made a decision as I have to pay a huge amount for a new car. I already repair my old car few times and have spent lots of money on it.Haix…it is too hard to make a decision.Buy or repair?
December 5th, 2009 at 12:46 pm
I’m a high school student currently in the midst of my SPM.
Being a teenager, I think making the right decisions is often hard as there are so many factors to consider (besides the fun part in everything of course).
Adults often have the misconception of us teenagers being too childlike to make our own decisions.
And that our lives couldn’t be as complicated as theirs.
ASKING ALL THE TEENAGERS OUT THERE!
Are our lives are so easy, we go by each day without having to worry and all that is needed to be done is just study??
PLEASE. THAT IS SO STEREOTYPICAL.
We’re living in the 20th century! With the fast moving pace we’re in, us teenagers even have problems sleeping at night. I am yet to experience a worry-free day.
My biggest dilemma so far would be…
To choose between my high school prom or to go to Switzerland with my parents.
You call that a dilemma??
(Don’t go yet! Hear me out!)
YES. Because a high school prom is something that I would never get to experience again.
I would never be in high school ever again.
I would never see all of my school mates gathered in one place. EVER AGAIN.
My last day of being together with my school mates.
It is, I’d say a somewhat important date.
Some of my friends even stated that there will always be college prom and uni prom.
It’s still a prom. But a totally different crowd.
Since you’re already siding prom, why consider Switzerland?
I have a fear of heights.
I hate travelling by plane.
I may appear all calm but deep down, i’m this super paranoid girl who doesn’t want to leave the ground. But there are choices we have to make in life. So more than i’d often like, i take the risk of taking air transport.
I asked a few people which should I choose and they said…
Switzerland will ALWAYS BE THERE.
BUT. The chance of travelling to Switzerland with my parents will not.
Not everyone understands my point of view.
They think that travelling alone or with a partner when you’re older will be more fun since your parents won’t be around to nag you throughout the journey.
I hasten to disagree.
Eventho I may have disagreements with my parents and I do not enjoy being lectured at every single mistake I do, I do not know what could possibly happen the next day.
So I have chosen to stay with my parents throughout the whole journey.
As if anything should happen, I would be with them all the way.
Goodbye prom.
I wish I could attend both.
But what’s a girl gotta do when she has to make her own choices?
To mates or to family?
Take note that all this occured throughout my SPM and I was having major break outs having to take all these into consideration while trying to focus on my studies!
I hope I’ve changed all misconceptions of how laidback teenagers lives are.
December 5th, 2009 at 1:40 pm
my biggest dilemma is whether go to the Sherlock Holmes movies or Avatar movie!
December 5th, 2009 at 2:16 pm
Hmmm.. My biggest dilemma is when I have to choose between wearing contact lens or glasses. Contact lens doesn’t make me look like a nerd and I don’t have to bother removing them when I’m eating or taking a shower but it’s difficult to wear it and troublesome as well but glasses are easy to put on and to clean it but it makes me look like a nerd.
December 5th, 2009 at 10:30 pm
My biggest dilemma was when I have to choose between my boyfriend and my study. I born into a middle-class family where I feel that education is very important to us. Because of this, I studied so hard that I passed most of my exams with flying colours and even got the chance to be selected to join the student-exchange program during uni time. I was studying in one of the most expensive uni in Malaysia back then, my parents are not very rich but they willing to pay everything for my education.
However during my 20th birthday, 3 years ago, this guy came into my life. He had everything that I ever wanted in a man and I know he is the one. When we started to date each other, my parents were very angry that they kept on object our relationships. My dad felt that if I am in a relationship, I would not able to concentrate in my studies anymore, hence making him feels that he is wasting his money on me. To him, I was an investment; which he pays everything for me now, and I pay for his life later.
So the dilemma was either I choose to be daddy’s girl forever (just like how things normally goes, where my dad loves me the most, gives me everything I want) or let him down by dating this guy. I just knew this guy for months but my dad had been loving me for years since I was born. Plus I am the only daughter making me the apple of his heart. But I knew if I let go this guy, I will never ever meet anyone who’s like him anymore. Plus I knew that he loves me more than anything.
So who should I choose? Daddy or darling?
December 6th, 2009 at 2:10 am
My dilemma in my life so far is when my car damage,i need to choose either to get the money to repair it or just sell it off.It is too hard to make a decision as I have to pay a huge amount for a new car.I already repair my old car few times and have spent a lot of money on it.Haix…it is too hard to make a decision.Buy or repair?
December 6th, 2009 at 3:24 pm
wow feli didn’t expect to see your comment here.haha. you’re dog was suffering isit? poor fella. it was so cute the last time i saw it..sob sob sob..
December 6th, 2009 at 4:32 pm
i really loves if i can watch this cool and awesome effects movie of the year.
December 6th, 2009 at 10:32 pm
Biggest dilemma that ever happens to me is to decide if I want to be who I really want to be or to let the society norm shape me eventually.
Fear, uncertainty, doubt, cause one to follow what other had done before. But one doesn’t realize that the path of others sometime is not suitable of one self. Struggle between this both one have to fight!
Yes, we have to fight, not with others; but with ourselves. Yes, I fought and I fought well. At first fear always took over, forcing us follow the path of the norm. Then there’s a voice whispering to us to be who we really want to be. Some choose to not hear the voice; some change the voice to follow the norm and more. As for me, I choose to listen to that voice and now I had gain the know how to decide which is best for me and from that day onwards be on control of my life.
Listen to your heart with a calm mind and you will be sure to be presented with the path most suitable for you.
December 7th, 2009 at 11:29 am
My biggest dilemma in my life happened on this year was whether continue achieve my dream or give up have a simple life. Since Stephen Chow is my favorite actor that I trust about what he said “There’s no difference as a salted fish if human doesn’t have a dream”. It’s my another turning point although it’s really made me sad…
December 7th, 2009 at 5:41 pm
i realy want wacth this movies
December 7th, 2009 at 8:22 pm
It’s just happen last month. This is my biggest dilemma when I have to choose to stay at my previous company or to move to the new one. Maybe new company give me better salary & benefit but I am afraid that I wouldnt get the same environment, friends, teams, happiness & enjoyments. But then I make up my minds to choose new company…why???? Because money is everything okay!!!! I need money by the way….
December 7th, 2009 at 8:31 pm
This year has been the hardest for me and it left me with two of my biggest dilemmas yet.
What could a 19 year old be possibly having dilemmas about?
Well, for one, I’m sitting for my STPM examinations this year. It has been a rough journey with certain parties telling me that I wouldn’t be able to get through it. Even a teacher of mine told me that if I were to continue, I would probably not do well. I had always wanted to be a doctor and I NEVER wanted to do STPM, but my parents left me no choice, and I ’suffered’ for a year and a half. In that period of time, I’ve been reconsidering career choices, wondering if it were even possible to be a doctor. I am not the brightest student around, but God knows I keep trying to be better. My parents are pushing me to become a doctor, but unfortunately, my interest towards that profession has been diminishing, slowly but surely. I have doubted myself so many times but I persevered. I wanted to prove to people that I could do it. And I still don’t know if I can. I have another two days of exams, and I fear the outcomes. I fear the future isn’t what I want it to be.
Another dilemma would be accepting my sexual orientation. I don’t know if it is much suitable to pen down here, but what the hell. I have always felt and attraction to the same sex as well as the opposite. I used to think it was a phase I was going through, but that was years ago. Recently, I embraced the fact that I am bi. Liking two different sexes can be very confusing, and you begin to wonder if being bi has become a reason to give myself and others hope, that I have a chance of being straight. I haven’t figured out that bit yet, and that is a dilemma, with outcomes that I see could be disastrous. Imagine if I were to have a boyfriend? I don’t think I would be able to hide it well, and what would my parents and family think if they were to find out? Coming from a traditionally bound Indian family, it is easy to see the protests from all sides rushing to my face. And being the only son in the family, I’m sure they would like to see me married to a woman and not a man. I don’t see things getting any easier for me any time soon.
So, even a 19 year old has dilemmas to handle.
I have poured my heart and soul out here, being one of the most public confessions I have ever made. And these would be the two biggest dilemmas in my 19 years of life.
December 7th, 2009 at 11:19 pm
My biggest dilemma I ever faced now is to choose whether to take ICSA paper or not.. I finised my diploma in 2009 and I got to choose whether to take advance diploma in business administration or advance diploma in business management which includes the ICSA paper.
Some adults or working class people said take ICSA and you can earn better income or whatever. But, many of my seniors who do great in diploma fail their ICSA papers. Is like choosing to earn good money and suffer my brain or relax and enjoy my college life and earn less in future.
However, I made up my mind to challenge myself for ICSA paper.Now, I’m doing my second semester. Hope that this is decision I made will make me a better person or earn better money. haha..
December 8th, 2009 at 1:37 am
My biggest dilemma in my life was to choose between being mummy’s filial daughter or to leave home to be with my boyfriend (who is now my husband). It all began like this:
In July 2004, I met my boyfriend (now husband) through an aunty whom I know works as a janitor in the university where I was doing my Masters research. The one that the aunty matchmade is her eldest son. So the dating began shortly after that and my parents didn’t object to our relationship initially. However, along the way, my mother became jealous of our relationship because she phychologically felt her daughter being taken away from her! My mother has always regarded me as a precious gift to be given away to the ‘lucky man’, yet she seems to see me as her ‘property’! Because of her ‘property’ mindset and the thought of her ‘property’ being given away, she felt she must get back her ‘compensation’ for allowing a guy to date her daughter, such as my boyfriend was expected to treat her in expensive restaurant, bring her along during our date outings, bring her for a holiday, fetch her to or from the airport without regards of people’s inconvenience. And because my boyfriend could not do all those things she expected him to do, so gradually she became resentful of our relationship. That time was the worst time ever in my relationship – I felt like I was sandwiched between pleasing my mother and protecting my boyfriend’s interest/rights. She kept on reasoning with me why I should not settle for him, why she thinks he will change for the worst after marriage, why he is not ‘The One’ for me, etc. And I was expected to listen to and obey her, otherwise she considers me a bad daughter and won’t leave me in peace (with her constant nagging and lecture)! She even stole all my fixed deposit certificates after knowing I bought a birthday present for him! She later told me that she has hidden my FD certs and all my bank passbooks in a secret place out of my reach because she fears I will use my money for my marriage! She is one person who thinks that a girl’s income obtained before marriage cannot be brought into her married life at all. In fact she thinks that she as the mother has a share to the daughter’s money earned before her marriage (that’s why I say my mother sees me more like a piece of property!). The peak of the mother-daughter tension happened when one day, my boyfriend and her quarrelled. From that day onwards, my mother insisted (and forced) that i should break up with him. The house was very unpeaceful at that time. My mother disallowed him to come to visit me, even disallowed me to go out of the house (except to the university) and even checked my handphone to make sure we didn’t contact each other! That was when I decided enough is enough! So I started making plans to leave the home. As I was making plans to leave home, I did ponder whether what my mother told me about my boyfriend will one day become a reality or not. If what she says is true, then I could have doomed my own life. And if that happens, how am I going to face my mother anymore? And if what she says is not true and yet I obey her, then I’ll never be happy. In fact, I may even end up being a spinster because from now on, she will probably stop other guys from taking her daughter away from her! That was a real dilemma for me. But I finally decided to follow my heart who trust this guy I’m dating. So one day, I found the opportunity to leave home, stayed with him and his parents and siblings, and we got married 6 months later (that was year 2006). Now we already have a toddler boy who is now 1 year 7 months old and I never regretted my decision to leave home. And I never regretted having my mother out of my life till now. In fact, I don’t regret having my mother out of my life since between a daughter and money, my mother chooses money! Looking 3 years into the marriage, the man I married is a good man – far from what my mother has always tried to programme me to think.
December 8th, 2009 at 4:36 pm
Thank you nuffnang :)
December 8th, 2009 at 5:37 pm
invitation not send out by 11 december???
By 11 December means invite will be sent out before that date and not necessary on 11 December
December 9th, 2009 at 3:52 pm
to put mascara 1st ( and and fill up my eyeliner millimetres and millimetres later to
fill up the gap which is obviously difficult and ugly as the line drew will not be
as smooth)
or
to draw eyeliner 1st ( and spoilt it later when i “giap” it with my eyelash curle
December 11th, 2009 at 1:20 am
My biggest dilemma is to choose my destiny. It’s hard to control when it comes to, “to eat or not to eat” and “to be fat or to be thin”. Life’s like that =(
February 17th, 2010 at 5:35 am
Just thought i would comment and say neat theme, did you code it yourself? Looks great.